Advice ANY Girl Could Give

[Darth Payne]

I don't get it. What exactly makes one guy more desirable than others. What's so different about all of us? Because I can't figure out what I don't have that other people do. I'm a smart, sometimes-funny, generally pleasant and polite.

What do you see?

[vashti]

Confidence is very important.

[Junket]

Confidence is very important.

Bingo.

I already touched upon this with him.

[jurupa]

Confidence is very important.

And money if the girl wants a guy for that.

But it also has to do with the guys personality and how it works with the girl's personality. Also it depend on the type of girl and guy are as well. The likelyhood of a party chick going out with a geek is next to none.

[HopelssRomantic]

personality clashing definatly..unless the previously stated "party girl" is looking to change.

the reasons some girls like some guys is out of everyones head..including girls...

but the reasons other girls are interested in other guys is a proper mix of the following:

confidence *definatly*
-if they guy does have guts to stick up for himself or for her....foget it...and the confidence to say "HEY I LIKE YOU!" (at the proper moment of course)-

attractiveness
-on this note..if you are average looking..or less than average..dont worry about that...just cuz one girl isnt attracted to you doesnt mean that another one isnt...and just cuz they arent physcially attracted to you...does mean she isnt towards your personality-

which brings us to personality
-be yourself...(obviously) show her the good parts..and wait till you know her well enough to show her the bad <im mean the REALLY bad>(do this so you have a chance...)-

show her that you can communicate properly

your pride
-not that you have pride..but you know when to use it..and you know when to stand down-

finally...
to get a girls attention...
just show her your AWESOMENESS!

[Junket]

personality clashing definatly..unless the previously stated "party girl" is looking to change.

the reasons some girls like some guys is out of everyones head..including girls...

but the reasons other girls are interested in other guys is a proper mix of the following:

confidence *definatly*
-if they guy does have guts to stick up for himself or for her....foget it...and the confidence to say "HEY I LIKE YOU!" (at the proper moment of course)-

attractiveness
-on this note..if you are average looking..or less than average..dont worry about that...just cuz one girl isnt attracted to you doesnt mean that another one isnt...and just cuz they arent physcially attracted to you...does mean she isnt towards your personality-

which brings us to personality
-be yourself...(obviously) show her the good parts..and wait till you know her well enough to show her the bad <im mean the REALLY bad>(do this so you have a chance...)-

show her that you can communicate properly

your pride
-not that you have pride..but you know when to use it..and you know when to stand down-

finally...
to get a girls attention...
just show her your AWESOMENESS!

Wow, finally a girl that makes some sense.

You should come out to Philly some time.

[HopelssRomantic]

haha...thanks! *blushing*

f**k philly...
come to cali!

(there is a beach!)

[vashti]

Wow, finally a girl that makes some sense..

Note that the word "cocky" was not used anywhere in her post.

[HopelssRomantic]

Note that the word "cocky" was not used anywhere in her post.

well said..

[Junket]

Note that the word "cocky" was not used anywhere in her post.

Vash.

I want to ****ing hurt you so bad right now.

You can apologize by giving me some damn rep.

It's been a while now.

[HopelssRomantic]

haha...be nice folks!

[Junket]

You should stick around here Hopeless, you seem like an interesting character, or at least a wise one to add to the gang.

In the mean time, I'm off to bed, I have to be up in like 5 hours.

[King Zarathu]

Note that the word "cocky" was not used anywhere in her post.

Would you just shut up?!

I want to ****ing hurt you so bad right now.

Here, here!

Give me rep too, dammit!

haha...be nice folks!

Be nice to everybody except vashti.

[misombra]

just be yourself.

lol jk.

[HopelssRomantic]

You should stick around here Hopeless, you seem like an interesting character, or at least a wise one to add to the gang.

haha..are you calling me hopeless

ya...this site would be my first forum..and so far..im having fun..

ive always given advice to my friends..and it has helped them..so i thought this might be fun..i need help too...but ive been too tired all day to type it out....so maybe later.

any advice you can give about how to use the forum would be appreciated..im a noob haha

anyway..good night..im tired....

<3<3