needing help

[temaz]

i'm new to this forum and i don't know if this is the right place to put this. There's this man who said he loved me and we started dating, but one day he said to me that he loved someone else, and he wants us both, what exactly do i do, i don't think i should date him any more, but i want to be his friend, is that a good idea?

[TheSphinx]

Decide what you really want out of the relationship. If it is friendship, fine, tell him so. If you enjoy dating him, however, there is no reason that you cannot start seeing other people as well.

Though he seems to throw the term "love" around (which can frustrate those who favor its romantic Western concept), he did have the courtesy to tell you about someone else in his life, you should return the favor and tell him exactly what you want.

[A-GAME]

I agree with TheSphinx.

I also think that you should confront him and tell him that this is not some kinda game and that he must decide to choose between you two...

[temaz]

thanks very much for your response, it has helped