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Thread: Best Frens? Boy fren? Which 1 would u choose?

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    Best Frens? Boy fren? Which 1 would u choose?

    Love n Fren?

    Who will u choose?

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    Wow, no one reply. But if I ask u the same question, who will you choose. For me friend would be my top choice, yes, indeed girl friends (for ur case it is a boy friend) is important but you must realise friend are forever. Especially those that has been around you for awhile already. Just because of a few week old relationship, u want to break up a few year of friendship? Love are not ever but friends are.

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    Love comes and goes (unless it is your true love, but you can never know...), but friends are for life!

    A good, true friend is a much greater gift then a good lover

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    If the significant other and the friend are both very respectful and you have a great relationship with them both [also assuming you do not go overboard], I don't think one would need to decide between a significant other and friend.
    If a dream comes true... then is it still a dream?

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    Do you know how to spell friend?

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    Quote Originally Posted by YourBestFriend View Post
    Love comes and goes (unless it is your true love, but you can never know...), but friends are for life!
    Aww, put that way it sounds so terribly sad.

    But what if you think you're in love with your best friend? Should you rather repress the feeling and preserve the friendship or give it a try, even though you're risking to lose a life-long friendship?
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    [QUOTE=YourBestFriend;260761 but friends are for life!
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    LoL, I change my friends like I change my sox. Speak for yourself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great OV!!! View Post
    LoL, I change my friends like I change my sox. Speak for yourself.
    one foot at a time?
    no autographs, please!

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    I will go for friends caz they are everything to me .I can not live without my friends .

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    Quote Originally Posted by comp_lex View Post
    But what if you think you're in love with your best friend? Should you rather repress the feeling and preserve the friendship or give it a try, even though you're risking to lose a life-long friendship?
    Ahhh.. you see I gambled and lost on that one. Tried to repress the feelings but it made me get very stressed out. Asked her but didn't even get a date out of it... and she was my first love. *cries*

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    Ahhh.. you see I gambled and lost on that one. Tried to repress the feelings but it made me get very stressed out. Asked her but didn't even get a date out of it... and she was my first love. *cries*
    Were you guys able to remain friends after that?
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    I had her as someone i loves to talk to.. & she loves my company..

    One day, we told eachother we should cross the line to be further than friends can be..

    We broke up eleven days later but continued as closest friends can be.. We realised we still want to be together, 8days later we were back together again.. 1month & 1week later, we broke up yet again.. This time.. We remained as normal ordinary friends.. She regreted that choice & i felt i should give it another chance.. We were back together shortly in a week.. 3weeks later, shortly aft 2month of our relationship.. We Finally broke up one last time.. Now she gets easily irritated & annoyed by me.. I cant help but feel we cant contact or see eachother without feeling strangers..

    Probably because of all the efforts, love & soul put into the relationship,we cant help but feel a form of despise in eachother. Maybe after a period of time, we might see eachother easier but thing will never be the same again.. Nor will we be ever able to tell eachother what had happened.

    I'll choose friendship if i ever feel alittle bit of dislike in the person that matters in a relationship..

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    I'm not entirely sure if we are still friends or not. We don't talk much...

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    Maybe you should start a new thread talking about your story.

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