Sorry i didn't know where also to post this, but...
I have this friend whom I REALLY like, known each other for 2 years. It's platonic, but there's chemistry even though we're both taken.
But anyway, this isn't about what I should do about the situation, but rather about his behaviour.
We're great in person; laugh, talk, flirt, tickle, playfight etc etc I have always gotten the impression that we were genuine.
I get the impression that he's not a huge web-presence person. No MySpace, facebook, blogs profiles etc anywhere. He has msn but only for the sake of chatting to certain people when he needs to.
I've talked to him a couple of times on msn but it was always shortlived.
However, just 20 mins ago I saw him sign on and then go offline about 2 mins later. I have a means of seeing who's online and who's not - and he was, apparently. So he's either blocked me or is 'appearing offline'. Things ran through my head: he's trying to tone down our interactions, his gf was there, he was appearing offline to everyone, or he doesn't actually like me (but wtf, why not??)
I absolutely do not understand why he would block me when we're so genuinely friendly in person. Am I looking too much into this because I AM a net freak? Maybe not everyone sees internet interaction the way I do. But it's really confusing and I'm feeling rather deflated. I keep thinking that real life is a better indicator of where we stand, but... gahh