ladies, so this is my question that i want my girlfriend to ask herself, "am i acting like a single girlfriend?".
i am thinking about popping her the question, but there are some certain considerations in my mind that makes me wonder what it means to be in a serious relationship.
i think she still lacks consideration in making a parter in a serious relationship feel comfortable. think about this situation if i was doing this to her.
A. she has a tendancy to always come home later than when she plans. (however she always calls) But this keeps me waiting up very late all the time and i end up going to bed without getting a chance to talk to her. (when i say always, its usualy 50% of the thime, however i consider this ratio to be more than suitable under this circumstance to refer as "always")
B. when she goes out with her friends from work(which I barely know) she takes alot of pictures. these picture contain features that i will refer to being too sexy. her and her girls are acting like they are kissing, liftinng eachothers shirts, slapping eachothers butt, grasping and wrapping eachothers legs around eachother, looking into the camera in a extremely seducing manner and so on. this is not an issue if i am present or if she is with people i know well, however the people that were taking these pictures were 5 random guys that i have no idea who they are, and i can say men are pigs. (plus her friends are known as party girls, which makes me feel a little uncomfortable)
C. we have discussed about marriage, and she expects me to pop the question soon, but i do not feel as though she is putting enough consideration into our relationship as much as i do. i personally refrain from doing anything that may make her feel uncomfortable. i do not go out with friends that like to pick up girls at the bar, i do not stay out past midnight even on the weekends, i introduce her to all my friends even before considering going out with them alone, etc. i also put a lot of effort into planning our future. i have done many research as far as how i can support her and how marriage will legally affect us. she does not seem to do be doing that, on the other hand whenever i mention this to her, she claims that it seems like she is never trying hard enough for me.
am i being too harsh? am i overreacting? please let me know if i should address some of these issues with her or not. i am not worried about her cheating on me and i really want to do anything that i can in order to make our relationship work.