My Girlfriend...

[jacobs]

I been in a long-distance relationship for a few months now. The first few months has been great but as times goes by, it start to get sour for me alittle. I feel that sometimes she do not care about my feelings, she prevent her oversea friends from knowing our long-distance relationship, to prevent them for disturbing her studies, i understand however sometime when we talk about it, the way she mention it, is just so hurting, as if i am disgraceful and a liability. Furthermore, whenever i am down, i just couldn't confide in her, she just don't seem to be concern and as if the problem is just because of i am thinking too much. confiding in her is as if receiving a reprimanding. i am force to confide with my close friends instead. Lastly, she is so into achieving her dream, she study so hard that sometime i just feel so neglect. as if i am not existent? maybe i am thinking too much or maybe i am just a bf that need more from his gf? i don't know cause sometime her reaction is really hurtful...as this is her first relationship, i never really put it to heart, cause maybe she don't understand but as times goes by...it really hard...with the distance everything...I love her but sometime i wonder it worth it.

[Bumble_bee]

don't you think you deserve better?

[jacobs]

don't you think you deserve better?

sometime i do but...i really love her. i just can't think of the possibility of breaking up with her.

[Feonixbrimstone]

Do you ever tell her these things? a relationship can be very self destructive if you keep these feelings inside and then they fester into something akin to a lovehate feeling and then you get hurt and she may as well. Talk about these things to her.

[jacobs]

Do you ever tell her these things? a relationship can be very self destructive if you keep these feelings inside and then they fester into something akin to a lovehate feeling and then you get hurt and she may as well. Talk about these things to her.

Thanks alot Feonix. I have talk with her. Turn out she have her own reasons. Turn out this year is very impt for her in term of studies which i am supportive of that.