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Thread: I'm a 23/yr old Virgin - is that weird?

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    I'm a 23/yr old Virgin - is that weird?

    Is it weird that I'm a 23 year old virgin. When will it get to the point that it will be weired 27, 30, 40? I honestly don't think it will happen within the next two years so that will be at least 25?

    Any thoughts.

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    Depends on who you are and how you live. If you were a priest it wouldn't be weird at all
    More important than it being weird or not is whether you're happy with it or not. Guess you're not, or you wouldn't be posting here... so, a little more background on you would be helpful.
    Time to stop complaining when there is no reason to. Life's good, man.

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    Yes we need some background...

    where you live...your views on sex...and pre-marital sex...
    are you fugly? do you tink you are fugly?
    Do you like men?
    Do you like the idea of sex....
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    Weird isn't the right word... Uncommon? sure. Plenty of people have had sex by that age but it really doesn't matter. It will happen, it just hasn't happened yet.
    Being a virgin bothers the person more than the person who sleeps with them. If you got close to a guy and then eventually get to the stage when you tell them, trust me, they might be surprised but not particularly bothered.

    Chill :-)
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    Na, it's not weird. Different people have different views on sex. It's ok to be virgin at 23. At least, the chances of regretting your first time will be a lot less than those who had their first time when they were 16. So, just chill

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    it's not weird, just uncommon. i lost my virginity at 22 last december.
    the girl i was with actually thought it was cute.

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    It's not weird at all. Uncommon, probably but who cares? Don't worry about it. Your time will come. There is no point in losing your virginity just for the sake of it. Wait until the right time and I'm sure the person you lose it to will understand and will probably like it.

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    Am i missing something..the op is a guy..whats making you think he is interested in men?
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    Its only weird if you make it weird. You don't have to make it be your label or identity. No one has to even know unless you choose to tell them.
    So, so you think you can tell Heaven from Hell,
    blue skies from pain.
    Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
    A smile from a veil?
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    And did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
    Hot ashes for trees?
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    Cold comfort for change?
    And did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?

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    There a are lots of virgins your age. Do you feel that it's cramping your social style?
    Spammer Spanker

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    Quote Originally Posted by sookie6 View Post
    Yes we need some background...

    where you live...your views on sex...and pre-marital sex...
    are you fugly? do you tink you are fugly?
    Do you like men?
    Do you like the idea of sex....
    Cali - Good Views - PreMarital Sex In my view is healthy

    Fugly No, I just developed late and no experience with women until I was 20. My friends tell me I'm handsome, I think because Im tall.

    - Not yet
    - Yes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    There a are lots of virgins your age. Do you feel that it's cramping your social style?
    It came out when I was wasted, now they changed their attitude and I feel that they now feel sorry for me (in actions and tones). Before it was a typical college buddy banter - now it kinda makes me weird...

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    At 24 I took my bf's virginity. I didn't think it was weird instead I admiried him and the fact that he didn't pound the first hoe to drop her pants in front of him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by girl68 View Post
    instead I admiried him and the fact that he didn't pound the first hoe to drop her pants in front of him.
    He probably did.

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    Yeah and you know that because you're the hoe who dropped pants? Please. You don't know him.

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