just broke up

[pedro]

Hi there all, first time i have been here and just looking for a little advice...
Broke up with my girl a week ago and it's valentines day tomorrow... i'm trying to not contact her for a month and give us both a chance to think but not sure if i should call or text her for valentine's.....
Anyones help would be great thanks.....

[sookie6]

The fact that it's Valentine day could work for you.

You need to go NC (No contact) from now and tomorrow your keeping quiet will hit her like 10 times more...

Read all posts related to NC.

I wish I knew about it a long tme ago!

[pedro]

thanks...was thinking the same... cheers for you help

[bluesummer]

Yep, definitely no contact on V-Day. Kind of hard to take a break-up seriously when an ex contacts on that day. She'll think you still have feelings or something, don't go there.

[pedro]

thanks...todays the day.. thought I would write here instead...

[stevelove7]

yeah pedro.. absolutely no contact on V-Day ..she'll be thinking you are kinda begging her..so, better cool ..relax..do something that could relax your mind...

[pedro]

Been over a week with NC have thought about it but held back...so thought to write here instead!

[Petit Papillon]

Write as much as You want , if it helps You No contact rule rocks the socks!

[pedro]

Thanks, been positive and feeling good

[Petit Papillon]

But for real, no contact rule is really helpfull. I made it by myself, and once You really stuck into it, You'll feel more powerfull and happy.Also ready to start new life without ex. Belive me

[pedro]

cheers for the comments, it working

[Petit Papillon]

You welcome Stay on LF, we like people who succeed to move on and are happy, again

[pedro]

2 weeks today!! was so close to say helo but held back...

[pedro]

After nearly 3 weeks she contacts me and i made the mistake of talking next minute where sleeping together for 2 days then no contactfor 2 days.. went to see her to tell her it's over and find out she still sleeping with an ex.. some stupid reason we ended up sleeping together again... started no contact again and she turns up at my place to tell me to leave her alone and never contact her again. she was the one that rang me and stayed over. what a crazy situation and i'm over the games...just want this to be over..deleted her numbers now she's back in my mind..bugger i was doing so weel too!

[Petit Papillon]

Dudeeee, it was so good and you needed to break... Ok , not a boig deal, at least you see now that it's nothing good when you finally try to talk to her I hope this time, you will at least knew that it won't make any sense to talk to her and you WON'T DO THAT AGAIN. Because belive me, she'll be back, sooner or later . Again. If you won't give her any response anymore, eventually she'll see that it's over and she'll give it a break. Be strong.