I recently made contact with a girl a couple of years older than me through a dating site. We'd talked a few times with each, got on well with each and so I asked her out on a date.
We met up and spent a couple of hours with each other. From my own perspective, I felt there were a few mixed signals .. the first part of the get together she seemed a little nervous (she'd told me before we met she was very nervous) and although we talked a lot, there didn't see to be that connection .. There was next to zero eye contact from her .. this is usually a big warning sign, I agree - but there was WAY less than what they're should of been if it was just due to lack of interest.
After a cigarette break we shared, the 2nd part of the night went better .. we talked more, laughed, she even mirrored the way I was sat with her, lots of eye contact .. it looked like some connection had been made. After another cigarette break, it once again went back to how it was at the start of the nigth although we were a lot more relaxed.
So we called it a night and went outside and stopped at my car - she lived barely 100 meters from where I'd parked and although I offered, she said it wouild take her a minute to get home so no point me hanging around.
At this point I was at the stage of thinking "oh well .. met someone new, enjoyable night .. but cant see anything coming from it".
But then I noticed she was lingering .. For a goodnight kiss?
So I leant in to give her a kiss on the cheek and she responded in kind before we gave our farewells and went out seperate ways.
I left it day or so then sent her a message saying "I enjoyed your company, was fun - I'd like to do it again" ... and she responded, surprisingly in someways "Yeah, I'd like to see you again" .. ok, great.
Later that night she messaged me and asked me if I'd like to meet up the next day and go for a walk in the countryside together .. to which I replied "yes, love to".
However, next morning she messaged me saying she'd woke up in a rough way and she'd have to cancel .. and despite me messaging her back to reschedule, she's not replied now for over 24 hours.
So I'm just trying to work out whats going on here .. SHE asked me for the 2nd date and then cancelled .. Any ideas?