Sticky Notes

[Terpy]

Ok, totally weird question.

I'm going to talk to my girl about something really important. However, I tend to forget a lot when speaking face-to-face. I'm never in the right frame of mind and I either forget to say something, or mess stuff up. My mind just feels blank and unfamiliar to me.

Would it be weird if I took out a sticky note with the stuff I want to tell her in front of her? =P

So that I get my point across clearly with the help of notes that I took when I'm thinking properly.

Or will it make me look like an idiot?

Thanks.

[smackie9]

Write her a letter instead. It will give you the opportunity to express yourself fully and be able not to miss anything you want to say.

[Incognito]

I totally agree with smackie. To answer your question though, don't converse with someone while looking at notes. It will make you seem less genuine.

[devonbrown]

If you are going to be using notes, try having the conversation on the phone so she doesn't see them.

The letter idea is a good idea as well.

I have to wonder why you can not focus on something you say is very important to you though. If the subject is that important to you, clear out the rest of the stuff floating around in your head and concentrate on discussing it with her. If you still can't do that, you may want to check with a doctor about why you can not focus.

Good luck.

[Terpy]

A letter....hm...actually I think that would work. It would be easier to say what I have to say.

I can't focus because I have a lot to tell her and don't want to leave anything out.

Thanks guys.