Ex boyfriend critically ill
My ex boyfriend was trying to contact me from a few days but I didn't answer his calls. Last night I came to know that he had a mild heart attack a week ago and his condition got worse in past 3 days so he is in Cardiac Care Unit. I have a lot of love and respect for him. And I'm shattered by this news. But I don't know what to do now. I got married 6 months ago. I still have extremely strong feelings for my ex and if I contacted him it will be too hard for me to simply cut off once again. My ex moved to another country so I can't visit him. We don't have mutual friends either who would convey my regards to him. The only way to know about his health is to call/sms him myself. But I'm afraid I won't be able to control my emotions and he is very much into me as well. Since our break up and my marriage he's been trying to contact me. So if I contact him now he might take it as a *permission* to call me in future which I can't allow. He is a heart patient now and I don't want to be rude with him. On the other hand I want to contact him because his heart problem could be very serious and God forbid he might not recover. I don't want to live with the guilt that I left the most loved person of my life alone in his misery. May God gives him swift recovery.
Any advice will be highly regarded.
It is sweet to dance to violins
when love and life are fair
to dance to flutes, to dance to lutes
is delicate and rare
but it is not sweet with nimble feet
to dance upon the air!
Oscar Wilde