Things you've always wondered about, but never asked

[vashti]

can a condom be too small in diameter to fit a very well-endowed man? what happens if they force it on, anyway?

and how do you know what size to get? trial and error?

(blush)

[Gratedwasabi]

can a condom be too small in diameter to fit a very well-endowed man? what happens if they force it on, anyway?

and how do you know what size to get? trial and error?

(blush)

Yes. It's very common and condoms aren't really labeled well.. it's all trial and error.

Unless a guy is freakishly big he can force on most condoms, just rather uncomfortable and you lose all feeling; plus the chance of it breaking or coming off is much higher. It's also strange brand to brand. I'm a magnum Trojan, anything else and I can't feel a damn thing and can only get it on partway, but a standard Durex thin is perfect.

Picking a condom is all trial and error and it's a HUGGGGE difference. I literally can't orgasm with a Trojan brand condom on. Feels like nothing. But Durex super-thins and it's really similar to bareback. Plus I've had lots of mishaps with Trojans, none with Durex. Certain penises like certain brands, they're all a bit different.

Do women like it when a guy makes sound during sex? I naturally don't really make sound but I kind of fake/force? it sometimes as it seems to excite women.... but then I wonder if they're just faking the excitement because I'm faking the sounds.. hmm.

[DoesntMatter]

I can't answer this question because I have an EXTREMELY tiny penis

[vashti]

Do women like it when a guy makes sound during sex? I naturally don't really make sound but I kind of fake/force? it sometimes as it seems to excite women.... but then I wonder if they're just faking the excitement because I'm faking the sounds.. hmm.

Since you answered mine, I will answer yours.

I think it depends on the TYPE of sound. Moaning is for women, but an occasional grunt (especially at orgasm) is probably okay. It doesn't actually arouse me personally, though. Actually, it can be kind of distracting.

[Gratedwasabi]

I can't answer this question because I have an EXTREMELY tiny penis

The make a condom for that!

[Mish]

I didn't know condoms had sizes, I'm pretty sure I've never seen one on the pack.

Yup, just checked, no sizes.

[vashti]

I thought they were sized XL, XXL, and XXXL?

I know for sure they can't be one-size-fits-all. How does that work?

[girl68]

I'm loud in bed and enjoy a man who is also loud. Silent sex (on a regular) basis = bad sex. I have no interest in men who can't/ don't make a peep.

[Charlie Boy II]

Get over yourself Girl.

[vashti]

I'm loud in bed and enjoy a man who is also loud. Silent sex (on a regular) basis = bad sex. I have no interest in men who can't/ don't make a peep.

You are SO going to hate having kids one day.

[sadie_genie]

Yes, a condom can be too small. What happens is that if he force it on, it would break easily. Better to find the right size.

[Gratedwasabi]

I thought they were sized XL, XXL, and XXXL?

I know for sure they can't be one-size-fits-all. How does that work?

You have super small ones, although they're not typically stocked at plain ol' pharmacies.

Normal. And then the Magnum ones. Anything else you'd need to order online.

So no, not really sizes. Normal and a couple brands have Magnum ones that are slightly larger. Unless you want to order condoms online and pay more, you just have to go through different brands until you find one you like. Different brands have different feels and a different fit.

Considering most studies/surveys put the number of guys that would reasonably need something more than Magnums at under 1%.. (insert your "oh my god not true I have/have seen giant penis story) and most basic condoms are suited for average size but work within an inch or two either way, if not ideally, and that makes up the vast, vast majority of men... pretty much can see why there are only two "sizes" available at most stores.

[girl68]

You are SO going to hate having kids one day.

Yeah I know... it'll be like when my ex and I got down and "shhh don't wake my parents!" Sigh...

[Lipp]

Q - Why do we (men) wear ties?

I mean, really, it's just a piece of cloth draped around your neck, which is kind of odd and dumb.

[vashti]

Q - Why do we (men) wear ties?

I mean, really, it's just a piece of cloth draped around your neck, which is kind of odd and dumb.

It adds interest and color to an otherwise-boring and drab outfit (suit), and allows you to show a bit of personality. Besides, women like to touch them.