Chasing the one and only unattainable girl..

[mrcellophane5]

Hi,

Sorry for creating so many new threads within such a short time period. I think I had emphasized this in my first post on this forum that I have a huge crush on this one girl that seems to constantly on my mind. My question would be whether it is natural throughout a person’s life to not have any such feelings whatsover only to discover them through the contact with a girl who is unattainable and uninterested in him?

Thank you in advance.

[smackie9]

Yes it always seems to happen. We tend to desire more the ones we cannot have...it's human nature.

[mrcellophane5]

But is there any way to reject those feelings? The girl is not a perfect 10 but she is cute and I am very attracted to her, even though I know she most likely hates me or does not care for me at all. my question would be why does a person not fall always for the perfect 10 ? And also, where is the line upon which one can say that he or she is falling for him or her because of the personality not the looks. I am not a supporter of Platonic love, and I do think that you need to be attracted at least somewhat sexually to that person. Im just pissed off at myself because even though I am a person who receives little or no attention from girls, when I see all indicators that a girls is hypothetically interested in me it turns out that she usually is not attractive to me...