how to get a guy back? is it worth it?

[milkshake]

I dated this guy about 5 months ago and I wasn't too sure about him cuz he seemed like a player but he seemed really honest with me and told me he dated someone while he was dating me.. So I dated other guys too. Anyways, in around march or so, he ignored me cuz he was wondering if I wanted to move in with in the future and whether I wanted kids and i guess he also felt pressure from his parents.

Anyways, we called it off about 2 weeks ago and I kind of miss him.... I panicked cuz he kept pressuring me to move in with him and I got confused of what I want... I thought I like my friend, but I realize I don't...

These past week, I been confused and right after I called it off, I regret and I missed him. I told him my parents said I can't move out and I am 24. My parents are Chinese and they think that I am still young and all. It's an Asian thing. Anyways, he said well they don't know me, maybe when they get to know me they will let me move in with him. He keep mentioning this and I panicked, because what about what I want? have he considered that? I don;t wanna move in with him just cuz he want me too. I am scared...

But I want him back so bad because he treat me pretty well and all..

I don't know how but I ran into him today at the club and I was like omigosh... he came up to me gave me a one-handed hug and said how was your graduation and I was like good. I need to pee and he said ok... I hella panicked cuz I was so surprised seeing him. When I saw him again, I tapped him n he tapped me on the back and i asked him what you doing here? and he said just hanging..

Is this destiny? I thought I wouldnt run into him anymore and I run into him? Either he purposely went to that club or we just happen to run into each other... I been telling his friend i been going to t this club twice in a row and I will be going clubbing again... When I saw him, I felt like he was trying to stalk me, but I don't think so... He did ask me how was clubbing when I told his friend I went clubbing last week and he told me who he dated and how he thought she was boring and all and told me about his clubbing stuff... iono what is going on?

will it be awkward if I said I told him I want him back? What if he rejects me?

[Archie]

You`ll never know until you try. It`s what you want, so go ahead and tell him. It will be awkward if it doesn`t work out, but atleast you gave it a shot.

[Cinnabella]

Just try it, and even if he would reject you, at least you had tried. And you won't have some what if in the future. Remember, chances are for using not missing.

[HeartIsAching]

Frankly, I think you need to stay the hell away from him. He's not considering your feelings at all. It's not fate, it's coincidence.

[milkshake]

i don't sometimes I want to get back together with him and other times, I don't because I feel sometimes he kind of manipulates me and tries to make out with me and but other times he's pretty considerate..

he told me he misses his ex and all and it just weird... and he told me he wanted to make out with me when he got back from vacation but he didn't because he thought that would be wierd.. just make out with me and go home...

Is he telling me too much details?

[pepsidude]

Isn't it obvious? He says that he wants to make out with you - not "i want to be your boyfriend". Therefore, if you want to make out with him go ahead and do it but try to keep your emotions out of it. If you want to date him - then forget it. Its not worth it, because clearly he doesnt want to date you, just F you.