No Moves...

[Confusedmess]

I’m seeing this guy who I like, but I am wondering if he’s not into me or just not very experienced. When we have sex I’m always the one to initiate it. He’s not a bad kisser, but has no real moves. He always tells me that he likes what I am doing to him or how I kiss him, but there is never any real foreplay on his part and it almost feels like he doesn’t know what to do. I even ask him at times what he likes, but he says whatever I do is great. Then there are those times that he has a hard time keeping an erection. He gets turned on just fine, but getting to the end point doesn’t always happen. He has diabetes, so that might be why that happens. I don’t make a huge deal about it because I like him and I’m sure it’s embarrassing enough.

So my question is, could it be me or does it sound like he’s not very experienced? I know he has never had a serious girlfriend, but that doesn’t mean he wouldn’t be good in bed. I’m worried this could ruin it for us and I’m not sure what to do.

[DannyH]

just gotta teach him. Some dudes don't pick up extra moves from beyond the first few times they get laid... but its nothing that a pair of handcuffs and a whip can't fix

[ctr916]

I think it depends on whether you are willing to "tutor" him in what you like. Role playing may be fun.