okay so a friend of mine and her boyfriend broke up for a few months but than got back together, in the time that they were broken up he dated a lot of girls and had sex with some of them, she loves they guy and wants to stay with him but she doesnt know how to get over what he has done, and i dont really know how to help her. in my opinion the fact is that they were broken up and she could have done it too but didnt and that was her choice.... i completely understand how hurt she is, and she said that she doesnt hate him and isnt mad at him but it hurts and she cant stop thinking about it and it kills her inside. idk how to help her or what to tell her. i mean they were broken up and its so obvious that the girls were all nothing to him and he was trying to drown the pain, so i want to tell her to just get over it cuz there is nothing either of them can do, other than him try and make her feel safe and loved and earn her trust back, and it seems like he is willing to do that. i think its just that she thinks about it and it makes her sick and she cant get over it and that he has been with other girls. any advice to help her get over it would be much appreciated!!! thank you