Mystery Date!!

[ThinkDreamDo]

Hi all --

I met a man online a few months ago from another, nearby city. A city which I've been thinking about moving to after I finish the degree I'm working on right now. We are both divorced, in our 40s, and had a great fun rapport going & since I was going to a conference in his town we met up & had an amazing and fun date. Really great chemistry on different levels. After that, correspondence was sporadic -- he said he'd felt so romantic & attracted to me but wasn't sure what to do about it b/c of the distance. Still, he kept writing me little emails asking how I was doing, calling me little pet names.

We've both been meeting other people, but neither of us has dated anyone we're interested in.

So last week I went there for another event & we got together again, and again it was really a great evening. At one point he talked about having me & my kids over to his house. He kept telling me how pretty I am, moreso than he remembered. I told him I enjoyed every minute & he said the same. ANd there was some smooching before I went back to my hotel. Good night was kind of difficult... I think we both wanted to sleep together but it didn't seem like the right time for me.

So now I have no idea what comes next. I am interested in him & would love to see him again. I'm meeting other men right now, too, but he's on my mind for sure. I just am not sure if I should wait to hear from him again -- he texted me the next day to say it was great to see me -- or if I should contact him next time I'm planning to go there... probably I should just wait & see but I'm interested in any insights into what a man might be thinking or feeling in this situation.

Thanks!

[smackie9]

Nope not really....just carry on with what you are doing.