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    The girl I like avoids my question why?

    I started to like my long time friend while back ago when I first started to visit her. We went to college together and normally just socialize during our open times before our next class started. I took her to the beach I was not aware I would have to pay but I did tell her to not worry about nothing so I sort of set myself up. And I would go over her house like twice before telling her I liked her. I got a small giggle and oh my god! and at that instant I assume she was not interested. I have personal issue when it comes to opening up and by me telling her I liked her it took the best out of me. Eventually I called her and told her if she does not feel the same way I will still be the same guy she met before. So we went out to the movies again I even took her little brother because she could not find a babysitter. I stay over her house until 3am in the morning because i felt she did not like me so I did not attempt a move and kind of just to socialize. I am getting to know her cousin and she a family girl. Couple days ago my friend took my phone and message her acting like it me. He told her if I had a chance when we were younger and she said no. Then he ask what about now and she reply saying why not when your leaving out of state. Then I took the phone and ask did she like me...she reply your a good friend and good person but because we did not take it to the next level I don't see you as anymore. I felt like I ruin my chance with her or if that message was implying a no and that I waited to long. Also I have suspect that she might have feelings for her ex and they been apart for one to two year do you think I am overreacting? I talked to her the day after but I don't normally flirt with her. I have a week left in the state what should I do...This girls is constantly going through my head and I don't want to seem desperate either.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alexandertaker View Post
    Then I took the phone and ask did she like me...she reply your a good friend and good person but because we did not take it to the next level I don't see you as anymore.
    There's your answer right there. Not sure what you're asking us for.

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