The only thing im truly concerned about is that, is there anything i should be concerned about when a guy is as straight forward as him?
Yes. You can look forward to a long, happy relationship full of good communication and trust. Players are not willing to wait or listen to your feelings. They want to get physical NOW. Sincere guys will listen to your feelings, talk about issues that make you nervous, and wait until you are ready for the next step.
I'm a guy and I'm like this too. I'm honest and sincere and direct. It does shock girls (they've told me) and it takes some time for them to get used to this. But they really like it when they get used to me. I hate playing games and I dump girls who play games or have poor communication. I also don't date girls that are vague about questions I ask. I say what I feel and am always honest (but I never say they have a big butt or something like that). The other thing odd about me is, I love small breasts. I really do.
So, with me, if a girl wants a one night stand, she should say that, and I'll decide if I want that. Don't lie to me to spare my feelings. I'm a big boy, I can handle it. Once I have chosen to date someone they usually have good potential, and I want a long-term thing with them.
So, take some time to get used to this guy, I think you will really like him. Talk to him about anything, and I think he will be open to answering your questions with sincerity.
Last edited by bulrush; 20-09-11 at 10:07 PM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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