Flowers for the lady, here or there.

[oldskool83]

been talking to lady good month and a half now, seen her a bunch of times. Last night she got more inquisative asking a quesion which was 2 fold. Either way i would choose to answer would make me reveal my past more so i ended up being honest since i felt we reached why i am single. So our pasts came out and that was that. She seemed to thank me and value what i said, same on my part. I need to go into her work tonight for some supplies and i got this odd idea to drop flowers off at her car to show my respect (id need to write a tiny note lol) for her opening up to me with out me asking. I kinda take the " let the dog come to you approach"

non the less, is my idea valid? or would it to better to just give her flowers on an offical date night? thats all, thanks! Either way i dont feel shes be creeped out cuz shes too into learning about me.

[whenweawake]

I like the car idea just cause its a suprise but depending on the heat they might die. Can u drop then stright to her office?

[Wakeup]

Are you actually dating her or just "talking" to her for a month? Are you official bf/gf? I don't believe in giving flowers unless you're actually official and you know that she's feeling you the way you're feeling her (I assume you're feeling her or you wouldn't want to bring her flowers) I think giving someone flowers before you're in an official relationship if putting pressure on the gal to like you back and they are always usually appreciated but they sub-concsiously put a bit of anxiety in our heads.

However; If you are definately going to give them to her then I'd do it in person. IMO finding them on my car would be kinda stalkerish.. It would be weird that you were there and didn't come in to see me and it would be weirder that you didn't give them to me in person if you DID come in to see me. That's my personal take on it anyway.

[scott green]

I would NEVER buy a gf flowers. This IS the 21st Century after all. Loads of girls think of flowers as something you buy for a grandmother or a dead person. If you have to buy her anything, go buy her a flying lesson or a xbox game she really wants or a spa treatment or something unusual you know she'll appreciate.

[devonbrown]

I think you should give them to her in person. Aside from the possibility of her finding it a bit too stalkerish if you left them on her car, there could be a lot of things that could go wrong with that plan. One of her co-workers could see you leave them and tease her mercilessly. Someone could steal them. She could think they were from someone else. It could rain. It could snow. There could be bees!

However, if you give them to her in person, you have control over the situation. You could explain to her why you are giving them to her with no risk of misinterpretation. Plus, you get the added bonus of seeing her face when you give them to her.

Good luck.

[oldskool83]

such great advice scott ill go do all that and get some work out vids with mcdonalda cupons so she can eat fat earthworm burgers. your such a great person!

ill scrap my orginal idea for this one!

[scott green]

such great advice scott ill go do all that and get some work out vids with mcdonalda cupons so she can eat fat earthworm burgers. your such a great person!

ill scrap my orginal idea for this one!

Just sayin... I know if I asked my gf what she'd rather have, a bunch of dumb flowers that would prob die in like a couple of days, or a copy of Red Dead Redemption for her Xbox, she'd totally pick RDR.

[oldskool83]

On a serious note after reading my idea back to myself i dont like it. Theres no need for it, seems to impluse to me. i blame it on an early AM not totaly awake thought.

[whenweawake]

The ladys must love u. Lol ill have to tell my bf that.