get her attn

[hugotc2010]

hi i am new to this site and thought i ask for some advice. i been seeing this girl whom i met through a blind date through my sis in law. we started going out since october and only been on three dates which were weekly. the last date before halloween we went to the lake and right there i noticed tht when i got close to her she would kick back and try to avoid my arms. ever since that day she has not called back or text back. i have tried calling her and sent her messages and she does not respod back i really do not know why this is happening. is it becus i went to fast or have taken her out too much. but on the second date we went to a concert locally and had a good time. i have not kissed her maybe i should've done it but the reason is tht i did not want to rush also i have not asked her out for the same reason of taking it too fast. i do not know whether i did wrong by not approaching and asking her out. so i am really confused why she has not responded back is it becus of asking her out every week or becus i did not make a move . so i do not know what is happening i texted her today to see if i can see her since i will be gone for a while to florida on a business trip. but the thing is on the third day we went to eat some ice cream the same day i tried to put my hands on her which before she would let me hug her and told her what i expected on a woman and how i like my relationships to be tht day was the day i saw her acing different towwards me . i also told her tht i would go and vacation with some classmates and do not know if tht was wrong to tell her i could have just lied to her and told her i would go on other stuff other than business but i told her i would go and have some fun. to put things short i want to get together with her and i have not found a woman like her. she is everything i want on a women. i want to be with her even though i have not asked her out or kissed her but the reason is tht i am not trying to rush but maybe i messed up and should have asked her out or kiss her so we actually kicked it off good on the few days we were together. i know what i want on a woman and it is her. but i do not know how i can approach it and get to the next step so i can make her be my lady and prolly future wife. but i am so sure of this women tht i do not know if i should go look for her at her house even though she has not aprove and if tht will be wrong if i do do it. or should i write her a letter and tell her my feelings or send her some roses or mai her from florida so wht can i do wht would someone do in a situation like this. becus i have seen tht my calls have not gone no where anymore so i do not know whether she has a man or has phone problems or doees nt want to talk to me i mean she does nt even bother let me knw tht she does not wish to speak to me or send me a reply or call returned. can anyone give me advice. i feel i want to let my feelings out but i do not know if i should tell her on letter or text or phone she is 28 and me 32 so help me out ppl and i am not desperate and do not know if she thinks like tht of me since i have been calling but i want to see how much times does a woman start thinking a man is desperate is it already too late or am i still good in nt being desperate.

[Cerby]

The American education system weeps right now. . .

Stop over-analyzing, for whatever reason, she isn't interested anymore. It may be nothing you did (or didn't do), it just isn't what she wants. This is dating, and this is how it results sometimes, you roll with the punches and find someone thats into you for you.

Move on, if she isn't returning your calls and you're pestering her more and more, you're getting nowhere. You can't force her to reply, so you just need to walk away and let this one go.

[bulrush]

Were paragraph breaks outlawed or something? Because I didn't get the memo.

"Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, simply surrounded by assholes."

Cerby, LOVE your tagline!