Need some good advice

[Lyoung19]

I have a boyfriend. He is 17 going on 18 years old. I am 19 years old. His family member are always calling me telling me that he is going riding with other girl and that he be having other girls over house. I talked to him about he said they are just friends. He told me that he loved me. I don't know what to believe anymore. I really love and I want to believe he's not messing around one me.We have been together like 7 months. Please tell me what I should do.I love him and believe we are good together.

[twentyfive]

Can you find any solid evidence that he is seeing other girls? Seeing them as in a "more than friends" basis.

[Lyoung19]

Nope I don't have any solid evidence that he is seeing them as more than friends.

[twentyfive]

Then you shouldn't suspect him at all! Trust him, and if in the end it is a wrong choice to be made, it's okay. You will grow and learn from your experiences. But right now, trust him and enjoy the relationship. Unless you have evidence that he is not being faithful, you should believe him above anyone and everything else.

[Wakeup]

I have a boyfriend. He is 17 going on 18 years old. I am 19 years old. His family member are always calling me telling me that he is going riding with other girl and that he be having other girls over house. I talked to him about he said they are just friends. He told me that he loved me. I don't know what to believe anymore. I really love and I want to believe he's not messing around one me.We have been together like 7 months. Please tell me what I should do.I love him and believe we are good together.

If you don't like him doing date like things with other women while you wait at home alone then by all means tell him that you do not like being disrespected like that and if he won't do anything to stop hanging out with other women or at least invite you to go along with them, then leave him.

No one should expect to be in an exclusive relationship and still act as if they are single. The people who tell you that as long as you are keeping him happy then he won't even consider these girls are basically blaming you for his selfish actions. Not cool.