I have a boyfriend of a year and we are in a long distance relationship. Today he was texting me about politics (he's republican, me democrat). When we are together he is getting alerts on his phone and he frequently says they are emails. I randomly asked him for his email address; said it was an article about something I wanted us to do together. He ignored me and continued on about politics.
Tonight I reminded him that I never did get his email address. He replied, "I won't. You probably want the democratic committee to send me a bunch of junk email. Send me the link."
I replied, "Are you serious?! Nevermind."
I haven't heard back! Is he hiding something??? Why in the hell would an email address be so top secret? Please help! My mind is going crazy over this...
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11-10-12, 10:00 AM #1
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Why hesitant to give me his email address???!!!
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11-10-12, 10:07 AM #2
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DUH!
Originally Posted by Lulu;834673I
He's got a GF or is married. LDR's are dumb because it's so easy to get away with lying and shit. If is smells off then it's gone bad. Dump his ass and date locally in real life.
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11-10-12, 10:36 AM #3
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I was just at his house for a week. I went to one of his closest friend's weddings with him while I was there. He has tried to arrange for me to meet his dad for lunch while his dad was in my town on business but I had to work. I doubt there is another girl...
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11-10-12, 10:55 AM #4
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Then you are dating a ninny.
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11-10-12, 11:04 AM #5
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What the heck is a ninny??
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11-10-12, 11:11 AM #6
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A Ninny refers to:
1. An idiot
2. Short word for nincompoop
3. Someone who is afraid of everything and has no courage, a pansy
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11-10-12, 11:12 AM #7
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Tip: make Urban Dictionary your friend.
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11-10-12, 12:19 PM #8
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Why didn't you just tell him that you wouldn't spam his inbox and that you just wanted it to chat and send links etc. See what he said to that?
I just don't get why so many people don't just fking ask for what they want outright instead of doing this "are you serious? Nevermind" shit and then coming here and asking complete strangers if he's cheating/losing interest/insane.
Holy Jeeeeezus on a bicycle woman.
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11-10-12, 12:43 PM #9
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Because I was instantly pissed!!!
I said that thinking he would catch the hint but he never texted after that. FRUSTRATING! I feel like he should have just asked me, "are you gonna send junk mail" instead of saying "No- you are going to send junk mail." So I am not the only one to blame here...
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11-10-12, 01:18 PM #10
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Oh for goodness sakes grow up and quit hinting at things and spell them out. Blame is irrelevant here. You're being all pissy and you brought it on yourself when you expect him to automaticall give you what you want. Well, what if he just didn't want you to blow up his inbox with your need for him to see and/or agree with your political views? Who cares about "blame?" Do you want his email? Will you not send junk mail? If the answer to both those questions is "yes" then swallow your false pride and just tell him there must have been a mis-understanding, I wouldn't send unsolicited junk to your inbox. Originally Posted by Lulu
Because I was instantly pissed!!! I said that thinking he would catch the hint but he never texted after that. FRUSTRATING! I feel like he should have just asked me, "are you gonna send junk mail" instead of saying "No- you are going to send junk mail." So I am not the only one to blame here...
You should learn how to effectively communicate (particularilly because you are long distance) or this shit will fester like a boil on you.
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11-10-12, 03:46 PM #11
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oh my you guys are so boring with that politics bullshit. how old are you guys?
and or he is some old boring politics freak, or he is a big liar.
and i think he is both, and he is playing you some how.
but why ask if you are going to keep wanting him.
and stop that long distance relationship bullshit.
that is no real relationship.
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11-10-12, 08:22 PM #12
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Yes, I agree most posts here. He has a girlfriend living together or sharing a computer sometimes, that might be a reason that he doesn't want you send him an email. and I also agree that long distance relationship never works, you will break up soon or later anyway, sorry, Im just being honest.
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