a complex situation

[usaforlife]

Hi guys

A girl I really like is in a relationship with a boyfriend for a very long time up 'till now.
In order to not get friendzoned, I keep my distance and try to talk to her from time to time because she's taken.
She always smiles at me, sometimes finds rather unnecessary reasons to talk to me and I can sometimes notice her looking at me very shortly when I'm not looking or not directly talking to her.
Maybe that's just the way she is because she's a very sweet and friendly person.
The things is, that on the other hand, from what I see, she doesn't show similar behaviour around other guys, at least not that I know.
I'm stuck in a dilemma:
In a way, right now she would be the person that I like the most because she has such a good character, her heart is in the right place and looks very good (and I mean naturally good).
On the other hand, I want to stop wasting time because she's allready taken. But when I would date other girls (maybe that could help to get over her),
my biggest fear is that she'll think that I'm not interested in her because maybe right know, I don't know, she might be too and she might wonder if I feel the same...
I know this is a bit silly and it's not that I have a social handicap or anything but every person has a different way of behaviour so maybe this question isn't easy to answer since it's so general and you guys obviously don't know her lol.
Anyway, good advice might come at hand

[Fruitsss]

its not a complex situation.

cause u know all u need to know. and that is that she is not single and u need to stay away from her and
respect peoples relationships!

[Wakeup]

A girl I really like that has had a boyfriend for a very long time up 'till now.

On the other hand, I want to stop wasting time because she's allready taken.

So, is she currently with this 'bf' or isn't she? If she is then why would you want all that drama of getting yourself emotionally attached to someone who is committed to someone else? There are a lot of lovely girls out there that aren't in relationships. Set your sights on one of them.

If she's not with this 'bf' now, then just ask her out for a coffee/pizza/drink and stop all this wondering. The worse thing that can happen is she'll say no and then you can forget about her and move onto someone who does want to go out with you.

[usaforlife]

I sure do respect the relationship and I'll never be the cruel person interferring into that, that's just wrong.
The fact that I see her practically every day and her behaviour make it hard for me to get over her, eventhough I know I most likely should

[Wakeup]

I sure do respect the relationship and I'll never be the cruel person interferring into that, that's just wrong.
The fact that I see her practically every day and her behaviour make it hard for me to get over her, eventhough I will

Fixed that for you, Usaforlife.