Get girlfriend back who just wants to be friends?

[john281]

Hey,

so my girlfriend broke up with me because she said she's lost interest, but still wants to be friends. I feel like she wasn't really set on her decision though and she was pretty upset after. Basically I didn't say much and left.

I really like the chick though and want her back, we've been dating for a while.

What do you recommend I do? She said she wanted to stay friends and I just straight up said no.

I haven't talked to her since.

[stev123]

friends in chick terms = her little helper which boosts her self esteem and attention whore needs.

just ditch her, tell her she broke up with you and she can deal with it. better that way than for you to be her bitch sideman (srs)

anyone else who disagrees is a fking beta

[john281]

Haha yeah there's no way I'm just going to be friends with her, she was shocked when I told her that. I was thinking just not talk to her for a week and see what happens? Wait for her to initiate contact

[stev123]

nah just cut off contact completely, if you meant anything to her she wouldnt have ditched you (chances are now with someone else). if she comes calling, shes just trying to trap you, just ignore her completely and move on, the sooner the better because you'll realise this relationsihp is a waste of time.

[michelle23]

I agree with stev. Tell her you cant be her emotional tampon and you dont believe in being "friends" with a girl. You have friends and dont need anymore. If she comes running back-make her chase you before caving in. Personally I think you should tell her to **** off if she wants you back. I have no tolerance for people who cant make up their mind. Its all or nothing.

[john281]

alright I think that's what I'm going to do

[michelle23]

Best of luck