Seeing a new girl, some advice please

[Albinoni]

Hi everyone here, I havent been on this forum for ages but have decided to come back and ask for some honest advise from those here.

Ok here is my story and I will try my best to keep it short and simple.

For the past three weeks or so I met a new girl in which I like very much and keen on her, so far she seems very nice and a great person to go out with. About 2 weeks or so ago she emailed me and ask me out for a coffee, which was nice of her and I was quite surprised actually. So we met up on the weekend, and we both went out and had a nice coffee etc and later that evening she offered to buy me dinner, was nice and simple dinner but the food tasted great, nothing too fancy. We spent the evening out together that evening and later on went home. I walked her back to the train station and I caught the bus home myself.

About 3 days later I got another email from her and she told me that she really enjoyed my previous company and would like to meet up again on the weekend for coffee, so yesterday onec again we met in the evening and I took her out for coffee and this time also bought her dinner too (fair I thought), out night out was great and enjoyed ourselves.

Some question here now and I am a bit confused, so your help and advise would be appreciated:

1. Ok I know we are new and she is new to me.

2. She wont let me kiss her on the lips yet just the cheeks as for now.

3. Thing is when she emails me she put on the bottom of the email Love or sometimes with love signed by her name

I dont want to push my boundaries with her just take it slow and go with the flow as they say.

So I am not sure if she is keen on me or not, I havent heard from her for two days now but I dont want to contact her. I have emailed her already to say hi and see how she is but so far no reply, probably she's busy.

So some advise pls and what should I do. Like I said I want to now leave the ball in her court and dont contact her, see what happens.

thanks

[4 ratties]

I kind of feel like your thinking too much into this.. You've only hung out twice.. Nothing wrong with her not wanting to make out yet. Sounds like she respects herself which is great. You already messaged her, so now just wait for her reply..if she doesn't reply I would just move on.. Plenty of fish in the sea that could give u more attention. You should of emailed her after your first hang out though. Women like a real man that pursues them. Sucks she had to wait three days and then contact you. Would of meant more if u contacted her, u don't want to be friendzoned

[Albinoni]

She mesaged me because she really enjoyed my company that night we weont out sorry it could of been 3 days or even 2 sorry I cant recall but around that. Also her father passed away and I did not want to push anything with her, her and her father were very close and I respect that. This is why I wanted to give her a bit of space.

You say women like real me that pursure them, true, but again women like a bit of a chase too dont they I am right and yes I ahve actually contacted her more than she has contacted me as afact also does not mean she doesnt like me. The thing is, if the man does all the chasing and she does nothing oh well the relationship can get stale and boring, like they say it takes two to tango.

I have already contacted her as in emailed her three times on the weekend yet no reply, so will leave it as is, ball now in her court.

[Albinoni]

She did not ask me out the second time, ok let me explian here. Every weekend I go out for coffee in the city here in perth WA and she emailed me and asked me if I was going to mu uusal place for cofee and would like to meet up with me and join me for coffee, it wasnt like the case where she asked me out on a date or asked me out for a coffe, she was asking if I was going to my usual place for coffee like I do every weekend and I said yes, and she said she would like to meet up and join me.

And out date the 2nd time went really well and she enjoyed my company.