So I am going to an event with my ex in the beginning of November and I have no idea how it is going to go or feel about it or how she feels about me. I'm really excited about the event (WWE - wrestling for those who don't know) just not on the whole hanging out together for a whole day and night. (staying at travelodge in a family room so two beds)
Quick back story, we split up due to her moving home for summer, so distance and we were in a rough patch and didn't have time to fix it and she felt at the time she loved me but not in love with me so broke up and were both really hurting about it but decided no contact would be good for a while.
3 months on with nc, she moved back up and we met up to catch up but she had a bf and been seeing him for 2 weeks. We met, had a drink (coffee) and chatted and innocently flirted and what not. Then 3 days after we caught up, she broke up with her bf. I asked about it and she said distance was an issue. (so clearly my ex has a thing about distance + not sure if meeting me again had any affect on this or im simply over-thinking it)
So now this event and her is constantly on my mind and have no idea how to go about things. I can kind of predict that we will probably have sex on this trip since usually when your in close proximity with someone you've been close to or intimate with it kind of just happens. (also we ended up having sex the day we broke up so not great at controlling our urges)
If this did happen then I don't know how I would feel, part of me would like us to get back together but I'm afraid that we'll just break up again when she moves back down, another part wouldn't mind being friends with benefits since then at least I won't be heart broken if anything happened and the other part of me thinks just class it as a one off and leave it as it is. All this assuming we even have sex...
any advice or thoughts on this is greatly appreciated