So i just got a gf but there is an issue

[MachinaMechLord]

My name is Chris and i just started to date my good caring friend Marie. She had asked me out which i am happy about but she has/had another bf when she asked me out.. I'm worried that he may try something against me or her or she may not be faithful down the road.. But i really Love Marie and i want us to be happy and i want her to be loyal and faithful. Can someone give me some advice on how to keep her happy and to keep her loving me

[smackie9]

Can I get your ages, and any background on her history of BF's and your experiences please.

[MachinaMechLord]

im 20 and she said she was 21 and i dont know her background in relationships but i was married for 4 years but got cheated on and i met marie recently and i fell in love with her

[ParadiseLost]

No you cant trust her. Her morals are diferent than yours. Would you ask a girl out when you have GF already?

LOL at being married for 4 years. Anyway you say you fell in love with her. What is love in your opinion? How could you fell in love so fast? Whats so great about her?

If you really cant stay away then say you could date her if she never contact her ex. No contact with ex at all. If she realy likes you she will want to live up to these high expectations but if she cant then its not worth it spend time on her.

[michelle23]

No you cant trust her and what your describing isnt love, its infatuation

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[MachinaMechLord]

i think it is worth it to be with in my opionion

[michelle23]

Lol so then y did you ask if you already know the answer?

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[smackie9]

.....LOL so you were married a 16? that's a little insane don't ya think?

[MachinaMechLord]

i was more of looking for answers on how to keep her around

[smackie9]

Oooooh....OH! so you are in the friends zone and you want to know how to make it more than friends, am I right?

[MachinaMechLord]

no if you read xD we are dating already

[ParadiseLost]

Dont give her the stars, dont give her your love. Just give her one night in heaven. She will be yours and wanting more.

[smackie9]

no if you read xD we are dating already

So you are physically intimate with each other?

[smackie9]

I say don't be a suckhole, putting her up on a pedestal, doing everything for her, being all emotional, buying he gifts all the time, paying for everything....make her earn your attention. Be less attentive, sometimes aloof and spend time doing your own thing without her. This will up her desire for you.