strange habit i have developed in relationship ?

[arslan_sweeto1]

i am into strange behavioral trap .. as i would like to say it ..
it's some kind a problem on my end. i want to rectify . so thought discussing might help it out .

i am not "having a lot of affairs" guy. i hardly ever have any serious relation.
lately i have felt that i have developed strange habit

when i first have chat with any person (whether girl or boy) .. i am like super attractive to anyone . and i m in the controlling position in every relationship . (i chatted with some girls on internet and talking about that experience here)

girls are attracted towards me .. and then soon i m all tired of all this and want some fresh air and this super attraction phenomena is gone soon . just like law of diminishing utility.

n i am worried about this behaviour of mine.
how to overcome this to enter into long term relation . i m fed up off this habit of mine :S

[woody]

Huh. Tell me, were you the kid in the daycare that fought tooth and nail for the toy truck but once you had it, tossed it aside?
Sorry to say but this sounds like a self induced notion that there's lots of fish in the sea. Well, there isn't. And that pool gets allot smaller every year.
If you find a quality person, nourish it. Don't assume some one better will always come along because often, they won't; especially if your always on the look out.
No one wants to give their heart to someone so willing to drop it on the floor.
Fed up with your habit? Then do something about it. Could be some deep stuff of past that is influencing you in this negative way.