I'm a college freshmen and I recently started dating a college senior. This is my very first relationship and to be honest I'm not treating it too seriously, because I've been managing my expectations with him (still a little skeptical about the situation). At the same time though, recently, I've found out some interesting things about him. For example this friday night I ran into him going out alone with another girl (when I saw them at the station I was with my friend and we hid but we noticed him tying on a bracelet for another girl?). Last week, when he told me to pick up his phone and check his text messages (since he just got one) I noticed that besides me he's been texting 3 other girls that day (within in a very recent time interval). We've also discussed before what we saw in each other and what he said was a little vague and not very heartfelt? (he said he thought I really cute and a living hazard).

Even though I've never dated before, I felt trying with him because he can be very considerate (he comes to visit me during work, he makes me breakfast and dinner occasionally, he always listens to what I'm saying, and he gives pretty nice back massages). I don't know if its worth it to keep trying with him since these things I find are pretty sketchy or confront him directly about what i've found?