So a little background, I have been dating my gf now for about 7 months, she is 26 and I am 32. I have always had some security issues in relationships because ive been cheated on before in the past. When I met my gf I was going through a divorce and separated at the time. I told her about it right away as Im a pretty open book and would never want to lead anyone on and hurt them. The fact that she was not only ok with it but there for me and supportive as a friend first is what made me fall in love with her. She ended up getting relocated to a different state about a month in to our relationship and we did long distance for 2 months and things were great. constantly talked and facetimed everynight no matter what we had going on we found the time cause it was all we had. 2 months later ironically I got relocated for work to the same state and we are an hour apart again. Things have been going great but lately I feel as if she doesnt want to spend as much time with me and im constantly competing for her time. I dont want to sound like im controlling or expect all her time cause thats not the case at all, my ex and I didnt work cause I was her only friend and her only hobby and its not healthy but I feel like there should be some sense of priority or compromise and little stupid things are starting to annoy me and start arguments. For example if you say you are busy in meetings all day and wont be near your phone I completely understand , so the other day knowing she was stressed out I sent her a nice message saying "I know your busy, just wanted you to know I love you , and hope your day is going well and not as stressful as you thought it would be" I dont expect a reply back cause she said she was busy but then 3 hours later im on my facebook to see her on my newfeed having a conversation back and forth with her friends and I just felt like if she had the time for that a simple reply or acknowledgment would have made me feel good too. Another situation it seems is when it comes to going out on the weekends she is tired a lot and we dont end up staying out late or going out at all which is fine I just care we are together, but then she will go out on a girls night and stay out till 3 or 4 am. I have no problem with the fact that shes with friends its just makes me feel like dont you wanna have fun with me especially when I suggest going out late to a bar or something? She is very supportive and does a lot for me and couldnt be more appreciative. I love her to death and being married I can honestly say the feeling I have for my gf now are ones I never had before and feel like they are the ones you are supposed to have that so many people feel lucky when they get them. Any time I confront her about this stuff she gets kinda mad and says I need to respect her and let her have her time with friends and that if she says shes busy then she means it. Im getting worried that she is losing interest in me and im becoming an after thought or that she wants to have a single life and maybe be in a relationship only when shes bored. I know a big part of this are my insecurities from other relationships but im not sure if im being ridiculous or have cause for concern and I dont want to bring it up constantly and push her further away. I appreciate any advice I get ty all so much