How much does a complete makeover affect??

[Confusedboy1994]

Hi guys,

I want to know something. How much does a complete makeover effect your chances with a girl who rejected you before?

Back then when she rejected me, I was a completely hopeless looser - spoilt, aimless, dishonest and immature. We have stayed close friends from then to now, though.

Till some time ago I was giving her all the attention in the world, giving her vibes of desperation and neediness. Now, I still am a good friend to her but I have started giving her much less attention and I don't spend much time with her. Meanwhile I have drastically improved my personality. I go to gym, I am physically much better, mentally I am far more motivated, become honest and am generally successful.

Should I take another shot? I am nowhere near the person she rejected. Even she accepts I have changed a lot for good, physically and mentally!

So can drastic change in appearance and personality and a bit time away get you out of friend zone? Is there even a chance?

[lovebroken]

It's up to you, but you risk rejection again and the girl would be sort of shallow to go I want him now when last she didn't want you, or is that okay?

[Confusedboy1994]

It's up to you, but you risk rejection again and the girl would be sort of shallow to go I want him now when last she didn't want you, or is that okay?

I am okay, because I was a very different person then!! Unsuccessful, weak, spoilt and a loser.. Who wants to date such a guy?

[lovebroken]

You are being very hard on yourself with the words you used. Feel good about yourself and make positive changes firstly for you, never for the love of another, who you are meant to be with will find you, don't waste time on people who won't love you like you would love them.