opinions/advice

[Laurie]

I have fallen head over heals for a man at my uni. He's an assistant to the tutor and he is so kind and we talk all the time and he brightens up my day so much. I am not like this normally I don't clap eyes on someone and feel this way. My previous relationships amount to a total of 2 first relationship ended after 9 years leaving me a single mum to one (father has not made any contact) and my second relationship was Lon distance and ended after 4 years that was 4 years ago. I want to tell him how I feel about him but don't know if I should. If I do tell him should I wait until June when his contract ends with the uni but then he might move back home to his hometown. I know I sound really stupid but I have not felt this way about anyone for a loong time. I'm 34 for god sake! My friend thinks I should make him notice me and flirt but I don't know how without making everyone else aware! I also don't want to embarrass him either.

[Laurie]

I suppose noone wants to give any advice then... Oh well.��

[drleo]

tell him nothing is wrong with that if he likes that a gold medal for you if he doesn't that's life

[Laurie]

tell him nothing is wrong with that if he likes that a gold medal for you if he doesn't that's life

Thanks straight talking always best. But should I tell him now or wait until closer to when his contract ends in June... If he doesn't like me in the same way then I don't want to make things awkward for us

[Wakeup]

He's probably going to lose his contract if he should pursue you. Do you even know if he's single?

[woody]

I suppose noone wants to give any advice then... Oh well.��

I will. You must trust in the natural process' of a solid connection. If you are feeling the za za zoom with this man, chances are he already senses it; and so long as no weird vibes ensue, it's a go. So, don't forget that vibrant woman in yourself waiting to get out. Embrace this feminine wonder that is you and enjoy the process....
For goodness sake, don't allow any negative thoughts to encroach on the possibility of true romance.
Woman meets Man, Woman likes Man and feels he likes her too, then Woo Woo Woo. and by Woo I mean, court. Healthy flirting is just that, healthy. Your single, he's single, go for it.
You've been on the bench too long and it's time to feel good again. Yes indeed it is.
Just keep it real, be yourself, let nature take its course and do what comes naturally.. Good on you woman!

[Laurie]

He's probably going to lose his contract if he should pursue you. Do you even know if he's single?

Yes he is single. Perhaps its best I wait until June when his contract ends. He's not a paid tutor he's an assistant. He's not involved with assessing our work just offers advice and guidance. I wouldn't like to put his reputation in danger.

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I will. You must trust in the natural process' of a solid connection. If you are feeling the za za zoom with this man, chances are he already senses it; and so long as no weird vibes ensue, it's a go. So, don't forget that vibrant woman in yourself waiting to get out. Embrace this feminine wonder that is you and enjoy the process....
For goodness sake, don't allow any negative thoughts to encroach on the possibility of true romance.
Woman meets Man, Woman likes Man and feels he likes her too, then Woo Woo Woo. and by Woo I mean, court. Healthy flirting is just that, healthy. Your single, he's single, go for it.
You've been on the bench too long and it's time to feel good again. Yes indeed it is.
Just keep it real, be yourself, let nature take its course and do what comes naturally.. Good on you woman!

Ha ha thanks for your positivity. I could let him know my feelings through flirting and if he reciprocates then great your right. He will either reciprocate or back away or will want to be with me but cant because of his contract and I hope he'd tell me.

[woody]

Yes, grab that inner Goddess and do it up Lady!!