that horrible feeling

[mattlawson]

when you get dumped and beg and plead for them back and then realize its over an dyou dont contatc them and you know they are thinking "thank god thats over with"

[Wakeup]

... O.o ...

*Looks in crystal ball* You'll be just fine in about three months. You've learned a lesson that if someone doesn't want you then the best thing to do is to go radio silent on them, quickly accept, heal to the stage of indifference to them and be free to find someone who you are better suited with.

[basilandthyme]

Ah Matt, I'm sure you'll also have a turn at the "thank god it's over with" feeling when you escape from a future relationship which doesn't work. It's par for course when dating.

Onwards and upwards

[Ash_Rose]

If this is the first time this happens to you, there's a good chance it will happen many times again. Yes it will hurt. But it is not easy to find someone to love who loves you back the same. And it should not be in my opinion. Love, for everyone I have ever known, has always come at just the right time. Not while they were looking for it, not while they thought they needed it, no...

When they thought it might not ever come and then suddenly, love finds you. You cannot force love. If there is no love from one side of the relationship, or a confused kind of love, it will not work. You need full engagement from both parties. Then it will work.



I'm speaking from my own experience here by the way. I have been in three long term relationhips (3, 2, 2 years), and I have been in a long distance relationship now for 2 years. I only get to see him once a year, luckily this year for three months .