We broke up AGAIN!

[roxamillion]

Well I feel super stupid. My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago and stupid me took him back. I think it hurts worse than it did the first time. He never trusted me, called me all kinds of names, would never leave me alone with anyone besides him. He was horrible. I am no angel, but I never had any space and I know that hurt us. I am relieved its over, but I feel stupid for letting him treat me so badly. I know it wont be easy, but I have made a promise to myself not to go back to him. I know that he has called here several times, I just do not answer. I have a feeling he will show up here sometime today. If he does, I will not answer the door.

It feels good to talk about it and maybe get some more advice from you all on how your surviving or what your doing to NOT go back.

Thanks,

Roxy

[justonekiss]

In my fresh, soph, and junior years of high school, I dated this one boy off and on. It was that first love type of relationship for both of us. We'd date, he'd dump me. He'd decide he liked me again, get my hopes up that he'd changed, then date someone else. Then they'd break up because he wanted to be with me, and the cycle went like that for three years. He finally found a girl he could stay with for longer than a month, and I said screw it, we're not getting back together. I had a year of him hitting on me almost daily and me ignoring it, still in "love" with him.

I didn't really get over him until my senior year, when I convinced myself I was in love with my best friend.

To make a long story short, find a good guy friend, or another guy you like around, spend some time with him. Whether you get romantically interested or not, it'll be a good distraction from that boy, and then no matter how many times he calls you, shows up at your door, or begs for you back, it just won't even phase you.

[roxamillion]

I know it will be hard, but I am hanging in there. He has called four times already this morning and I did not answer. I am nervous about not answering because he just gets mad mad mad. I am going to leave for a while and maybe he will get the hint.

Thanks for your help.

[Tone]

ROXAMILLION

I swear... girls are so ****ing stupid (seriously no offense I'm more mad at my own problems right now you are just confirming it though)

GODAMNIT