Please help me clarify what he could be feeling....

[Lauuxrawr]

Long story short : we were in love and had our problems in the past but loved each other enough to work through it. Now his friend sends him a link to a website he visits and sees a girl that supposedly looks like me, has the same sheets as me on a live sex cam and when he called me on Skype her sex cam show shuts down so he thinks it was me. He doesn't believe it wasn't me no matter how hard I try to explain it wasn't. He started getting distant and mean and said he wanted to wait for her to log in again to confirm or deny his already suspicions of it being me. She never logged in it's been a week and I've been growing impatient so I wrote a long goodbye text and ended it. He came back a day later trying to make me upset again saying anything else I wanna say before we go our seperate ways and that he's taking a girl to the club tonight so he has to go. I just blocked him. Idk if he cares and is hurting and wants me back or legit doesn't care cause of what he though I've done. I just need a little clarity in his behavior. Please help. And nothing rude will be great ..

[SuperHappyTime1]

Long story short : we were in love and had our problems in the past but loved each other enough to work through it. Now his friend sends him a link to a website he visits and sees a girl that supposedly looks like me, has the same sheets as me on a live sex cam and when he called me on Skype her sex cam show shuts down so he thinks it was me. He doesn't believe it wasn't me no matter how hard I try to explain it wasn't. He started getting distant and mean and said he wanted to wait for her to log in again to confirm or deny his already suspicions of it being me. She never logged in it's been a week and I've been growing impatient so I wrote a long goodbye text and ended it. He came back a day later trying to make me upset again saying anything else I wanna say before we go our seperate ways and that he's taking a girl to the club tonight so he has to go. I just blocked him. Idk if he cares and is hurting and wants me back or legit doesn't care cause of what he though I've done. I just need a little clarity in his behavior. Please help. And nothing rude will be great ..

I'm a realist and don't want to break your heart, but it's likely one of these two:
-His initial story is true and he thinks you've been performing in cam shows, and is justifiably pissed and acting out.
-He was making up the story and trying to get out of a relationship with you.

[basilandthyme]

Short of you having an identical twin pornstar sister, it just doesn't make sense. Unless you've never met your boyfriend in real life???

[Lauuxrawr]

Yeah I haven't. We were supposed to meet in 3 weeks but this shit happened.

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He showed me the link where his friend sent it so I really don't think he's making it up. Plus he didn't break up with me he said he wanted to wait to see if it was me or not and we just got back together before this happened so I don't see why he made it up. But if he's acting out do you think he still cares and loves me ? Or do you think he won't be back ?

[juraiknight]

Sounds like trust issues to me. Unfortunately, I believe trust built from a long distance relationship (in which I assume this is) is flimsy at best. Since the internet is so anonymous and anyone can make up anything, there will always be a sense of distrust, especially since you two haven't even met yet. If I were you, I'd tread lightly on this whole situation.

[basilandthyme]

Yeah I haven't. We were supposed to meet in 3 weeks but this shit happened.

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He showed me the link where his friend sent it so I really don't think he's making it up. Plus he didn't break up with me he said he wanted to wait to see if it was me or not and we just got back together before this happened so I don't see why he made it up. But if he's acting out do you think he still cares and loves me ? Or do you think he won't be back ?

OK, I'm a firm believer that we can't truly love someone until we thoroughly know them. (The fact that he doesn't trust that this image isn't you is evidence that he really doesn't know you yet). And I believe we can't thoroughly know someone until we've spent a lot of time with them. So, I don't think he loves you. Yet. Love is something which may happen when you've been able to truly get to know each other.

I can't tell you whether or not he'll still visit you. But do you really want to be with a guy who doesn't trust you? Especially given that this online relationship has already had problems.