How bout this one??(Ladies)

[Seb87]

Do you remember your first true love.
I mean the guy u thought u were gonna marry when u were in high school or college.

What you think bout him now?
Would you do it again?
Miss it at all sometimes?

[Ellynn]

Well it was a few yrs back......and honestly Im glad I got out of that relationship. It was honestly dragging me down..... But you know from time to time I do think about the good times and kinda miss it all....before it all turned to sh*t and he cheated on me...... Sigh....oh well.

[Seb87]

If he didnt cheat on you...... would things be diff u think?

[Ellynn]

If he didnt cheat on you...... would things be diff u think?

Possibly.... I think we would have stayed together alot longer..... But there were other issues as well..with him. He couldn't keep a job......mooched off of his parents........sometimes mooched off of me....but I really loved him at one time and the sex was WONDERFUL!

But yeah once that trust was broken......I knew it was over.

[zena]

he wasnt really my first love, (we were neighbors) but then we had a mutual understanding at that time... it would have grown to something wonderful but we were just not meant to be.. it was fun though

[clynn]

No. I don't know if I've ever had a first true love. My first serious boyfriend lasted 5 years, and although I though about marriage and the future with him, I never felt fully convinced. I'm not sure he did either and it took a while but we eventually broke up.

After that, I fell in love madly with someone I dated off and on. But he didn't fall madly in love with me. So I can hardly call that love either, can I?

[bluesummer]

Do you remember your first true love.
I mean the guy u thought u were gonna marry when u were in high school or college.

What you think bout him now?
Would you do it again?
Miss it at all sometimes?

My first love was also my 'first lay' that I mentioned in the other thread. I mean, we break up with people for a reason....all the reasons I broke up with him were valid then and are still valid now, so I'd never date him again. He's a terrific guy....good heart, smart, funny.....but still not the 'whole package' I wanted in the long term. I miss his friendship a lot. But the relationship? No.