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    First date with girl with high interest

    First, I would like to state that I am not looking for any advice on how to proceed with this date, if you feel like dropping advice then go for it.

    What I am looking for is just opinions and thoughts to see a clearer picture of this date. Especially feedback from a woman's POV, just this once.

    The back story - On Tuesday during work, a girl from out of town came in and ordered some food. One thing that caught my attention was her pink hair. So I decided to ask her about it. She seemed nervous, I could see her interest growing more by the second. About half an hour after she left she called the the businesses asking to speak with me. She ended up saying that I "seemed nice" and if I wanted to hang out. This caught me by surprise. Never have I had a girl verbally ask me out first. To which I said yes. I texted her and set up a date

    Today. I plan to pick her up at her place around 1. Bringing her back into town, and having an action date right off the bat. Tennis to begin with. Haven't decided what to do next, maybe disc gold, who knows. I'll be prepare by then. I tend to keep the date short, 1 hour, to 2 hours tops for obvious reasons. After that, take her straight back home, and follow up the beginning of next week.

    What I'm looking for - Seeing as she has high interest in me to begin with, will she be wanting me to seal the deal that same day? Bring her back to my place, and escalate ? I am planning on not doing this until the second time around.
    -What is it she is wanting out of this? Simply getting to know me? I doubt that this is all she wants.
    -Should I do things differently? I'll consider
    -Is she at least expecting a kiss or heavy kino? My gut tells me yes to both, why else would she call quick to hang out.
    -What are some must do in first dates with a high interest girl?

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    You know...it seems like she's gonna kill you or sell your organs. Swear to god this whole deal sounds so dangerous.
    DUDE CHECK ON HER BACKGROUND BEFORE YOU PROCEED. (Being serious really).

    The world is a dangerous place , good luck.

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    You are going on a date.....you are not jumping off a bridge, it's just a date, have fun, enjoy yourself. Keep dating organic and just go with the flow, read body language, facial expressions, and listen.

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