comfort zone

[mer1]

just curious if it's possible to really like someone alot but so used to a certain comfort zone where you're afraid then to go outside of that and actually express feelings towards someone which could lead to a relationship?

[whaywardj]

Yep.
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[lilwing89]

dude a simple yes or no question cant make us help you with your relationship problem. spill it out!

[mer1]

I believe this girl likes me but won't tell me. she's very indecisive type here so I don't know why she's acting likes this either because of college right now,the pressure and stress of that or it's a personal thing where she gets scared easily situations like that. I know she has alot of guy friends,that are just friends but maybe when it comes to the dating and relationship thing possibly scares her.

[Airborne]

And what are the signs that she has been giving you which indicate this and does she give these signs to others as part of her natural behaviour?

I have to say this is all extremely ambiguous but I think I get the jist of it, if you don't think you could see yourself with her in the form of a relationship then I wouldn't go out with her if I were you as you will only end up hurting her.

[moeburn]

Are you saying that by telling them your feelings you would be going OUT of the comfort zone?