I need a female perspective, ladies please advise!

[sonx]

Hello Ladies outhere,

I need an advice about my relationship.

Im sure my girlfriend cheated on me, but she denies it.
She projects her guilt on me, and she says im always accusing her. So i feel guilty about accusing what i feel to be true.

I feel She is gaslighting me. She says im crazy.....
and she left.
But i think she is the one who is crazy, because she did it next to me when i was sleeping drunk.
She denies it as well.

She says I should visit an mdr.......
What do you propose?

[breathe123]

Hi back :]

Sometimes thinking something is off ( like a partner cheated & even though they deny it ) can be instinct kicking in not always but a lot of times it definitely is. Are you always accusing her of cheating? if so, why are you still with her if you can't trust her?

Have you no concrete proof? Only suspicions? Why do you think she is a cheat? Did what to you when you were asleep drunk? Had sex with you? Were you in another relationship at the time or with her?

I propose : if you don't trust her anymore : break up. Life is too short to live that way.

[spe]

There is not much point being with her if you don't trust her - irrespective of whether she cheated or not. Do you have any evidence that she did indeed cheat on you? I would say you have to weigh how much you love her vs how much you suspect her of cheating. If the relationship is worth it, then go to a counselor and try to work through the issues. If not, just let her go. There are many women in the world and you will find someone you deserve!
PS: would love to get your opinion on my question!!