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First off, it sounds like you've only had two relationships in your 20 years so you really have no experience with dating. Don't let two bad experiences deter you from going out and meeting other...

You're very welcome! And good for you to open up with him about your past. If he is truly a good man he'll like you more for the honesty and courage that you've shown to take control of your life....

If you truly want to have a relationship then you will need to tell him about your past eventually and sooner is better for both of you. The fact that you've been clean for 10 months is a good thing...

Don't beat yourself up for being too nice as there is nothing wrong with it. Some guys are just a holes who take advantage of nice girls but usually karma will bite them were they sit. Try to be...

He is most definitely interested in you. He is a very shy person and probably a bit introverted based on your description of his choice to keep his life private. Just keep doing what you are doing...

Be open and honest about your feelings toward him and explain that you do want to marry him (providing that is true) someday just not today because you are not ready. Try to have this conversation...

There is nothing wrong with chasing after someone you feel strongly about. However, there is something wrong when you manipulate the situation by always saying the other half never pulls their...

Building a relationship based entirely on financial needs will only lead to despair unless you can find someone who has the same aspirations as yourself. If he hasn't or is unwilling after 4 years of...

Long distant relationships are tough to make work at best. This guy sounds like a player who is only after some tail. I don't think he ever had intentions of a real relationship with you other than...

Well I believe you will be enlightened once he discovers you've been lying to him. Really? How could you lead him on and still keep your boyfriend. Sounds to me like you're covering your bases in...

I think you need to move on also and get your insecurities in check as they are what caused you the grief in the first place. You cannot expect a man to give up work for you and nor should you give...

Yes the time is now to move on and find another guy who will treat you the way you want him to. If a guy allows a previous girl friend whom he has slept with to stay over on a weekend that you are...

If you feel confident that the two of you had a connection during your time together than go a head and ask him out for a catchup drink. During the time together try and prod him for more clues as...

Based on your post I would say that he is definitely thinking of more than a FWB relationship with you. If this is not what you are looking for than ask him to slow down a little and tell him things...

If this guy is important to you than you should definitely figure out how to calm down and let it come naturally. After all he told you that you are scaring the crap out of him but he still wants...

Yes I agree you should approach him and ask about potential plans for valentine's day. Most men have a tough time understanding why women place so much importance on the holiday as their brain isn't...

Actually I didn't suggest that at all. What I said was to move on. How you do that is up to you. You obviously are interested in what these guys are doing so if that is your end game than ask them...

Why can't you just let it go? Sounds like you are enjoying the drama yourself and a willing participant in the game. As you've been advised a few times in this thread "just move on".

Just let it go and move on. It doesn't really matter why they are playing the games they play. Learn from it for the next time you see a similar situation so you won't get frustrated once again. ...

This is a sign of a manipulative control freak and it is time for you to find another male friend who appreciates relationships built on trust and recognizes that it is a two way street. If you let...

I think it is time to move on and find another relationship. If all you are looking for is friendship then wait for him to initiate the contact. If you are hoping for more than I think you will be...

Sounds like the boy is using his friends to see if they can get the answers to questions he can't or won't ask himself. If you don't hear from him again it is probably a good thing. If he was truly...