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I am bisexual and married. If the two of you don't have an agreement where you've said it's okay for her to have sex with women, then it's cheating.

I don't think you should be mad that she's...

Hideous??? If that picture is really you, and this is for real, you aren't hideous. You look like a normal teenage guy.

This is coming from someone in their late 30's, though, so I'll admit to...

Then move out and get your own place.



Your guy wants to control you. Not good. You should be able to take fitness classes you want without checking in with him. Honestly, I'd look into one...

As for the clothes, he's jealous of other men looking at you the way he looks at other women. That's insecurity.

Pole dancing class? See above. I'm not sure he's afraid you'd become a stripper...

It sounds like your husband is trying to calm down by walking out on the conversation and taking some time. I've had to do this in the past in my relationship. I have anger issues and have probably...

You have every right to be a little ticked, but look at it this way --- you went out 5 times. Just be glad you didn't get the "I'm not getting a connection" talk a year, 2 years, 3 years down the...

Woops on the country.:D

I agree that it's a questionable activity to be "involved" with her cousin, but do you really think she is? Or are they just close?

As for the reckless behavior, maybe...

I don't find it "pathological" that she isn't into sex after 5 dates, but she keeps making excuses to leave every time that they can be alone. This, to me, shows that she is not comfortable with...

All you can do is encourage her to be safe.

Also, as far as I know, just because they're cousins, doesn't make it incest if they slept together. First cousins are allowed to marry in many...

I'd wait a while. If she doesn't respond, then maybe just a, "Hey there...how's it going?" type of message.

There's a chance she didn't get the message, but also a chance that she did and just...

She is definitely putting up a little bit of a barrier with excuses. I'm going to say that I don't think I ever stopped making out with a guy I REALLY liked because I "had class in the morning", and...

What's her relationship status say? Or is there one? No status could mean a lot of things.

She may just be busy or not necessarily as interested in keeping up with you as you are with her,...

Maybe ask her if she wants to do something saucy on a date...like go to a burlesque show or something!!! You mentioned you are in Seattle and I know there's a club doing old timey burlesque at Pike...

It's kind of a broad statement, but I'd have to agree that it's definitely a serious issue. I think when people get married, they are all with the "team" idea, and then that tends to fall by the...

Maybe the loans will be paid off before we retire. He's been laid off a few times and went back to school for a while, so at those times, it was deferred. He went to private school, so we still owe...

We've been married for 12 yrs -- he's 39, so he's aware he's "not a boy", but I get your reasoning. I think he thinks we're at a stage in our life where we "deserve" things, but in my opinion, you...

My husband and I have a pretty good relationship, or so I thought. We have a lot in common, spend time together and generally agree with one another on major decisions, but recently we have been...

I wouldn't tell him, since that will probably dissolve your relationship. Perhaps he already knows, but it's unlikely. People tend to project their feelings of betrayal by their boyfriends or...

The part I took away from your original statement is, "took some e". Ecstasy is going to make you want to hug, kiss, feel everybody around you. Two kisses? You're lucky it wasn't much more or many...

It's bad news. She may never totally alleviate the symptoms of her depression, but until she learns how to deal with it, she's going to bounce from person to person because that's what makes her...

Yes, he's acting like a brat. It's unbecoming for someone who is most likely in their mid-20s. Some people LOVE to bitch, and your boyfriend is one of them. Wah, wah, wah...my life is SO hard. It...

If the negatively bothers you, I would say the future for the two of you looks bad. He's been doing this negative outlook thing for a while, and even his mother knows it's a mood killer.

Do you...

kitkitkitty has a good point. You two are both young. If something about her bothers you this much, not much else really matters. I also was pretty "Christian" up until the age of 17 or so. I...

Any reason given as to why she broke up with you? If it's over, let it go. Otherwise, if you want to get back together with her, agree to meet her.

To start off, I'm going to say that a 16 year old is pretty young for 19 year old guy, but I know that it's fairly normal. Do you two have plans to "meet" in real life at any time? If so, you have...