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Okay, he definitely does not have a girlfriend at all. He left early because he has packing to do. Lots of guys and girls who know him have told me he does not have a girlfriend and he himself has...

Okay, I would be so grateful for advice and on an updated situation of whether a guy likes me.

Basically a work colleague I have the hots for. So far, 3 weeks of snatched eye glances that is all....

lol thanks, yep sorry, realised I repeated my question. Thanks for your honest and totally right answer! lol

It was nuanced differently though ... for instance, I wasn't sure I was being paranoid...

Hi guys,

I really want a male perspective on this, as it is a daily moving situation and I really like this guy and I just don't know enough about men to make a judgment call.

Basically, me and...

Thanks. However, after the garbled debacle over saying we had mutual friends, which suddenly came across like I was stalking him, it might be lucky if he even wants to give his details out, let...

lol ... point made, you're right.

Today I did say something to him, but it was garbled mumbling (I didn't ask him out or ask him for his details) basically I wanted to tell him we had mutual...

Thank you, both of you above :-)


But just because he looks over at me ... is that because he is looking straight ahead and he has nowhere else to look?

He has natural friendly conversations...

Okay, please help me work out 1. if this guy likes me 2. what I should do

Me and this work colleague are working temporarily in a job with no notice period. We started on the same day 3 weeks...

Hi Everyone,

Here's my update on my online romance - no, not anything like General Petreaus ;-)

Summary: So, I have the hots for this guy I know online, but not via online dating as it was a...

I'd say yes and I think online relationships can work and I'd suggest skyping. Confessing you have feelings is a good thing, you have nothing to lose. I would also keep going out locally in case...

Hmmm yes, I agree it's not normal to say "I'm intense and laid back at the same time" . Perhaps I should clarify. At the start of any relationship there is a degree of intensity as both people get...

I like having contradictions, it makes for a more complex personality I don't like being bored ...

I used to live where he currently lives. Also I have a lot of friends where he lives. If I go and visit him, I will also be visiting and meeting up with my friends. I would say photos from a year...

lol ... girls are lots of contradictions!

Let me clarify: my photos are when I was slimmer and I have put on some weight (not much I hasten to add, I'm not an elephant). I don't play games, it's...

Cyber sex seems like foreplay ... of course I plan to have real sex, but for now, it seems different. Maybe I crave a bit of variety? (who doesn't?)

Hi there everyone, thanks for all your replies.

Firstly I would never get mad if a guy pointed out I was bigger than I was. I agree with your point that woman tricked you. I wonder why she...

Here's my dilemma. Let me know what you think about it.

I have been messaging a guy who is a friend of a friend every day for 3 months. He lives a long distance. One month into our flirty...

Thanks. I'm quite happy in my present job, so I don't really want to move at the moment, although that's not to say I won't move to his city in the future.

I have friends in his city I'm due to...

His city is commutable and I could easily move there for a job if needed. We've both have no problem with long distance relationships too. I don't want to suggest I would move there until I'm sure...

Thanks. I'm just trying to think ... when guys have fancied me and I haven't fancied them back, then they've tried to be friends, I have just ignored them and hope they get the message. You don't...

Thanks. I wouldn't like to say he has no problem with the ladies, in fact he told me he struggled, and another girl he was interested in (we both knew) turned him down. He's shy-ish, I wouldn't say...

yeh ... because he didn't have to reply to my (few emails) as he had moved cities and could have faded me out easily which is what guys do when they're not interested. He really didn't need to send...

Hi everyone,

I need truthful advice as about 6 months ago I asked for some advice on a shy guy, but here's the update.

the summary: I fancied a work colleague when we were working on a project...

I think the issue comes about due to young women thinking and telling themselves amongst themselves that 'guys should pay' if they were a gentlemen. This then frees their money up to buy more...

Yep, that was my point. The OP had loads of spare cash each month and the boyfriend had repeated complained why he was paying for her all the time. The OP clearly had a gold-digging agenda and was...