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Ask her out again.... If she says no then you haven't really lost or gained anything. If she says yes then you know you still have a chance (most likely definitely your last) to make a move and show...

Just start talking to him again, tell him you had a good time that night, ask him out (yes, it's acceptable for girls to ask guys out.... some guys LOVE that) and just see where it goes.

Maybe he...

Not sure how you feel but I sometimes feel like I missed out.

I know a lot of people who lost their virginity at that age....

17. Was the latest out of anyone I know. Nobody knew I hadn't kissed a girl until that age, they all thought it was something I had done a long time before.

Happened on new years eve. Both of us...

I actually wrote that without seeing your reply. Didn't mean to make it sound like she should ignore you since you always give good advice around here.

I just meant that she shouldn't do...

It will probably be hard for you guys to go back to what you once had. That doesn't mean it's impossible. People only feel awkward because they let themselves feel awkward.

Just accept what...

Better you learn the error of your ways at a young age rather than sitting home alone while you're in your late 20's wondering why "there's no nice guys out there"...

Wow, what a ****ing prick (excuse the language)

You seem so much better than him.

Don't dwell on this. You're better off without him.

There's someone out there who'll treat you right.

Oh wow....

Lost for words here to be honest

How does a women get away with that much decieving?

Wow.... sorry to hear that man :(

Or else you could just ring her and say "hey, I'm be around your work tomorrow, want to grab some lunch together?"

Could be that she didn't think you were attractive enough or could be that you came of as needy.

Especially by sending her numerous texts and leaving her messages on her profile. Girls don't go...

Personality is the real deal breaker for me, but it kind of goes hand in hand with a pretty face.

If they've got a nice face and a good personality then the rest doesn't really matter to me.

So why aren't you and him together right now doing it instead of telling us?

I don't understand how people can cheat. I'm a very monogamous person.

If I ever got to the point where I felt like cheating I would end the relationship and find someone else. If I did cheat on...

Troll answer: He isn't actually gay and he was just using that as an excuse to get close to you....

Serious answer: If you guys are as close as you say you are then don't let this get in the way...

Couldn't agree more

Nah not at all man.

I don't really think the number of dates has any significance, if you really liked the girl and thought it was going somewhere then that's all that matters.

Well that new job should help you get your mind off things.

Hope it works out well for you man.

Oh, I did. I'm just saying "You seem like a really nice guy to me, too. And I don't mean that in the spineless, wimpy, pathetic way" would imply that you think "nice guys" are those things.

I'm...

Maybe it was due to a busy schedule she had and maybe things weren't moving as fast as she would've liked.
Doesn't explain breaking everything off though :S

@Vashti, nice doesn't have to mean...

I don't really know any of the back story, to be honest, but from what I've skimmed across in this thread she was holding out on sex or am I misinterpreting something?

There's a million and one...

Suppose, at the end of the day you can only put into it what you get out of it.

Just be thankful she was straight with you and didn't go down the road of keeping you on the long finger. That's a...

Sorry to hear that man.

You seem like a really cool guy, some of the stuff you come out with around here has me in stitches a lot of the time.

Her loss.

Most guys have the opposite problem :P

Seriously though, guys always take the smallest things about someone elses appearance and really exaggerate it. Just let it roll off your back. Your nose is...