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Oh yes. I know the guy you're dating. He's the hot n' cold / bi-polar guy. If you keep your distance, he's gets hot. If you get too close and show your heart, he's cold.

My suggestion is to lose...

I'm sorry to hear you are going through some difficult times.

I think you need to sit down with your fiancé and have a serious talk about things. Perhaps if you could open up some communication...

Yes, I agree. Call her and try and set up a new date date! It's the only way you'll find out what's going on.

I recommend you meet her and see if there is chemistry/mutual attraction.

Without meeting in person, there is no way at all to answer your question about whether you have a chance because...

Unless you are Justin Bieber(!), I really think your chances with this girl are slim. It's not because you aren't a good person, it's because she is clearly popular and can probably have almost any...

I am so sorry to tell you this, but having read your post, I really do think he is just a user. He only communicates or has a relationship with you when it suits him and/or when he has no other...

I know exactly how you feel because I've gone through this sort of "unrequited love" thing before myself. I know what it's like to grasp at every possible sign that the person might like you even...

I don't think you can read anything into her "good morning". At this point I'd say you may be grasping at straws in the hopes that even the smallest thing ... such as her greeting ... means maybe she...

I think her message is very clear. She wants to meet you, and she is hoping that there will be chemistry, but she doesn't want to get her hopes up in case there isn't any chemistry.

Basically she...

Of course, you were attracted to her, but who wouldn't be attracted to someone half their age? But having a relationship with that person is another matter entirely.

I don't think the problem is...

You've only met once and you're in love? I hope you realize your love is a fantasy. :-(

You sound like a spiritually advanced man to wish her well, despite your obvious grief. Showing such goodness and grace will bring you good karma. Sometimes when we lose someone we love it's because...

The most significant thing about the scenario you describe is that she changed her behaviour even though you didn't change yours. This suggests something has happened to her that is impacting her...

Yes, I have experienced the same thing as you in breakups, and even in several cases of unrequited love. It is very very difficult to overcome it -- especially in your case since you have been...

I think the affair offered you an escape from your lifeless marriage and it gave you hope for a better future. What you really needed to do was to find the strength to extricate yourself from your...

Please don't feel bad about what happened. First of all, I believe only 25 per cent of women can achieve an organism during intercourse ... and usually not the first time when they're with a man....

I think you are hoping for some sign that she will come back. But, deep down, you know that, if she does come back, it really isn't the best thing for you.

My guess is she could have a pattern of...

I am not at all easily ruffled. I am rather unflappable actually. I am not an emotionally based person ... I am rationally based.

He didn't owe me anything because we weren't involved. However, I...

Thank you, Chinagirl. I can tell you are a very lovely, sweet person for the comfort you provide. You're right that I didn't invest too much. However, he was quite an exceptional person, and we had a...

Dickriculous: That's a good point. Well, whatever his motivations were ... and presumedly I'll never know ... I'm left at the end of the day feeling angry, uncomfortable, disturbed and stupid ......

I definitely didn't misread his signals. They were unmistakable. I didn't come across as nosy either. I asked the questions in the natural course of conversations with him ... in a very positive way....

Thank you Smackie. She isn't ill though. As far as I know, she is perfectly healthy.

No, I believe they were going out when I asked him. It's possible though they are more serious now.

Yes, I agree that her attractiveness is irrelevant. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. :-)

I met this guy at a social group I'm a member of.

He definitely liked me and I very much liked him. I believe he was quite aware that I liked him. However, he was still getting over the death of...