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Quoted because I vehemently disagree with this. To suggest that just because he's accusing YOU of cheating means he's cheating himself is just jumping to conclusions way too quickly.

You could...

Agreed. Although in reality most people could tackle their weight problems effectively by implementing a strict diet alone, they usually can't stick to it... exercise helps make up the caloric...

Sorry to wade into an old thread but I just had a personal experience with the "no contact" thing after a breakup and I'm now even more convinced that this is absolutely crucial to re-building your...

Really? I think 8lbs in 5 weeks is awesome. I mean, within 3 months that's nearly 20 lbs... not too shabby, especially if you can keep that pace up until reaching the intended weight!

Pretty much agree with all of this. It's cool to fantasize just don't build that fantasy into some sort of expected reality that may result in huge disappointment. Proceed with caution etc. :)

I've had this same sort of experience dozens of times. First of all, keep in mind that you could be reading too much into this latest texting exchange... definitely possible she just genuinely is...

Definite overreaction. Maybe he wasn't aware how you felt. I'd mention your feelings to him, make sure he understands, then let it go and go back enjoying sex again.

That's not the way you should feel in any relationship, let alone one of 3 years and with a man whom you have a child with. Definitely all stuff you should be talking to him about in therapy.

Both of these things sound like good ideas. Therapy should be a place where he can comfortably talk about these issues.... plus the fact that you've ordered a sex toy should hopefully wake him up to...

IMO this is a good thing, not a bad thing. Larger amounts of ejaculate sometimes go hand in hand with more intense orgasms. Plus some women enjoy semen.

For what it's worth, I've read that...

Sounds like a tough situation. I'm not sure how much help I can be, but I would like to offer a couple of thoughts:

1. It's definitely not your 'fault'. If he has lost some of the sexual...

Completely true :D

This is exactly what I was going to write. Agreed 100%... time to back off a bit and take some time to reflect / give space.

Top things that come to mind:

- Maybe he's got an addiction problem that he isn't willing to share with you yet.
- Maybe he's fallen out of love with you (hopefully not) and is struggling with...

I'd get myself checked out for ringworm, and then proceed with life as normal. Don't see why that kind of thing would affect my view of the girl overall though.

I think women are just as "all over the map" on this topic. I've had some who love it -- definitely wanting me to finish in their mouth every time -- and others who were disgusted and offended.
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Sounds to me like she's already thought it through quite thoroughly...

Welcome, I'm new to these boards also and in a similar situation. Not sure I can give you much advice but based on past experience there are two things that heal better than anything else: 1) time;...

Maybe it's time to lay down an ultimatum of sorts. In other words, tell him exactly what you wrote in the post above: "I love you, I feel so happy when we're together, but it just seems like our...