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    I'm with @basileandthyme. This is not a woman;...

    I'm with @basileandthyme. This is not a woman; this is a child and a disturbed one at that. WHY would you even want any kind of relationship with a person like this - why would you even think that...
  2. The nicest present is one that shows you're...

    The nicest present is one that shows you're paying attention to the things that she likes, the things that are important or attractive to her. Does she have a pet that she loves? Get her a book...
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    If you behaved that way towards me, I'd think...

    If you behaved that way towards me, I'd think that you weren't serious about me and pull away too. If you're not initiating sex or showing that you desire her, then of course she's going to feel...
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    I have to go with (a). The things that you want...

    I have to go with (a). The things that you want out of a real relationship are admirable and understandable. But it doesn't really matter what you want if the other person doesn't feel the same...
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    it's your boyfriend who needs to put a stop to...

    it's your boyfriend who needs to put a stop to this. Women like her enjoy having power over men so even though she broke up with him, she's trying to see if she still can make him feel something for...
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    First, don't assume that all girls like to play...

    First, don't assume that all girls like to play games. You're making a generalization based on this one woman. Second, it seems pretty obvious to me that she was shopping around for a well-off guy,...
  7. I think that you've answered your own question. ...

    I think that you've answered your own question. Yes, you are addicted - to the drama (and adrenalin) that was present in your past relationships, to the feeling of trying to hang on to a person who...
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    There are some men (and women too) who feel...

    There are some men (and women too) who feel superior when they do this sort of thing - criticize and put down their significant others. It a sign of his own insecurity and a way for him to be the...
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    First, stop talking to him about her or your...

    First, stop talking to him about her or your worst fear will come true - you'll lose him; maybe even drive him back to her.

    Second, focus on the fact that he's with you, he chose to be with you,...
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    Many men do not understand a woman's need for...

    Many men do not understand a woman's need for emotional and non-sexual bonding and affection. Your husband is even more challenged in this area because he comes from a family that has taught him to...
  11. First, know that text messages sometimes don't...

    First, know that text messages sometimes don't get delivered. Second, she sounds as though she cares about you but both of you are coming out of bad relationships so you should just let things...
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    I don't understand. Aren't you doing the same...

    I don't understand. Aren't you doing the same thing - going on a forum to complain about him? Okay, so you haven't gone into details and said "extremely mean" stuff but you aren't expressing your...
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    She might have gotten upset but I think she...

    She might have gotten upset but I think she already had those thoughts. Just didn't want it verbalized. It really doesn't help someone's depression for another person to point out that on top of...
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    Some reputable online dating sites like Match.com...

    Some reputable online dating sites like Match.com have live events where you can meet other members. I'm not a member of any online dating site but a friend of mine is. I don't find having some...
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    I think that you should listen to her mum and...

    I think that you should listen to her mum and sister. It seems that they were trying to tell you something-perhaps something that she couldn't. When a person says that "on paper" another person...
  16. You're not only right to give up and close the...

    You're not only right to give up and close the door on him - you MUST do it. This type of person is needy, selfish, and will always drain you emotionally and, if you're not careful, financially. I...
  17. You keep talking about the great sex and her...

    You keep talking about the great sex and her beauty, etc. and you say that you don't think religion is the real issue. I think you're wrong about that. And even if it doesn't seem to be THE issue...
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    I think you should cut your losses and leave. ...

    I think you should cut your losses and leave. She might be suffering from some withdrawal but what bothers me is the fact that you can't be around whenever that other guy stops by. Social anxiety -...
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    Prefer a clean shaven guy.

    Prefer a clean shaven guy.
  20. The issue isn't him watching porn. The issue is...

    The issue isn't him watching porn. The issue is that he's lying to you - or at least it seems that way from your post. It's clear that you think he is. And that brings distrust and doubt into the...
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    Can't you see how unstable this person is? I...

    Can't you see how unstable this person is? I don't know if she was always that way but she's got problems now. First she contacts you to rub it in about how she was already falling for that other...
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    Confused. You need an unbiased opinion about...

    Confused. You need an unbiased opinion about what? If you're asking whether you should pursue a real relationship with this person, the answer is no. She's not ready for one and neither are you....
  23. Your mutual friend probably told her a lot about...

    Your mutual friend probably told her a lot about you (nice things apparently) so she might have already felt like she knew you and liked you. And maybe she felt that she had to let you know right...
  24. She might be missing you or the kids might be but...

    She might be missing you or the kids might be but that doesn't mean that you should try to get close again. You were a part of their lives for a long time. But feeling a little lonely and missing...
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    Sometimes it's not what is said but how it's said...

    Sometimes it's not what is said but how it's said that hurts other people. Telling him that you'll "take care of him" in the morning and then later saying "come on but it's gotta be a quickie" might...
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