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Have you ever dated outside of your race before? I don't think it matters too much that it's an asian girl. It could be african-american, latina, middle-eastern, etc. and they could be shooting you...

You just have to realize there's a possibility that if you invest in this relationship you may have to sacrifice where you live now and what you do now to be with him. He needs to realize this as...

I enjoy it when my guy makes me laugh at myself at situations I get too worked up over. That's the best. Knowing when to make a girl laugh is the important part if you're going to be the funny guy.

I think you will only be able to tell by going out on a few official dates to see if the chemistry is there. If there's no spark then its probably just you feeling a deep connection through friendship

In highschool I had the biggest crush on a guy named Antonio. Everyone knew he was gay except me I guess. It's a possibility he's into Tom and was eye balling you because you're a threat to his man....

lol this thread is funny. It's natural for all ppl to fart and crap. Would you want to be romantic in the morning knowing she's got a turtle head poking? Lol just tell her to shower after her morning...

Kareoke...drunk kareoke.

Only you can help yourself by just accepting her past. If you can't accept the fact that she has a past then there's nothing you can do but break up. Everyone has a past...so its unrealisic to think...

Do girls approach you and want to date? Or are you just selective about who you want to date? You can't just turn something off. Focus your energy on something else....like yourself...work on your...

He may like you but just doesn't want to put in the time or effort. In other words you're not a priority at the moment. If its just casual, then leave it that way. I wouldnt invest much in him seeing...

I am trying my hardest to not be selfish and to respect our agreement of no contact, but this shit is hard. I don't sit well with uncertainty. I know you told me you love me and want to work things...

this is the longest we haven't spoken in nearly 3 years. 6 days/14 days of no contact. It makes me sad that this is how things can be, that we say we're so in love with each other and want to make it...

You did the right thing to block his calls and msgs. That sounds really creepy that he would come off that strong and not even know you that well. Who cares if he is a player...he sounds needy to the...

Run away from this relationship....seriously! He treats you this way because you stay or you come back. People like this need a wake up call, and perhaps breaking up with him for good is the wake up...

I would bring it up. I have only violated my bfs privacy (not current but ex) when I had suspicions...I will say some guys make dumb decisions...they think it's fun, it passes time along, and it's...

He's being cautious and maybe in his mind saying ILY comes with a new set of responsibilities so perhaps he's afraid. You put your feelings out there for him, and now he knows. IMO, you shouldn't...

So, an update to my situation...me and my bf are on a break. Originally he said I was controlling and didn't like what he saw, but I think there are a lot of other issues too...

He's 35. His dad...

Has anyone had a partner who would bottle things up...were you able to get past this? My bf and I have been doing some reflecting and its clear to me now that communication is a big issue. Is there...

So, I took myself to a therapist (yesterday) about many things and we discussed the situation I'm in with my bf that I'm on a break with in addition to many other topics. I felt good I got a lot of...

Sounds like you're thinking about what could have been. Did you have a recent fall out with another girl? When I've broken up with boyfriends in the past I would think about exs before. I even...

He said he doesn't know if what he's feeling is natural or not since he doesn't have any other LTR to gauge against. I can't help that..he will have to go figure that out on his own. It hurts to say...

Thanks Boisdevie for replying. Maybe mine and his definitions are different for what is considered serious. I am the only girl he has ever brought home to mom if that matters. I absolutely agree that...

I'm 29 and he's 35. Been dating 2.5 yrs. Talked kids and marriage. We've had a fee big arguments. He's a very quiet person. Bottles his feelings inside until they explode...i wear my heart on my...

hi....I stumble upon this forum looking for relief from my own mind. Me and my bf of 2.5 yrs (dated for 1) are taking a break. He initiated the break. Each day feels harder than the last as its been...