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Writings on the wall man.

You acted like her friend. Movies are terrible for first dates because you can't talk, build connection, or flirt, you come out of the movie in the same position you...

You need Pure Math 30 to get into any university program here (the advanced math class in senior year of high school). I'm a 4th year psych major - I have no need for math in day to day practice -...

stop jerkin it bud

You haven't built enough comfort with her. No one's too busy to have a phone call, but to escalate you gotta pump her emotional state a bit first. If she's having a mediocre messaging convo she's not...

Coming and having an orgasm are the same thing. Saying "I just came" is the same as saying "I just had an orgasm".

You don't NEED to stimulate her clit to give her an orgasm, but usually it...

When I saw the title I was going to say just buy a vibrator. Not a big deal if you can't come from vaginal stimulation - any secure guy won't have a problem with you touching yourself during sex or...

Leave man. I don't go to the club anymore, and neither does my girlfriend. Age is similar to you, and we've been together for 3 years.

The only reason you go to the club is to flirt and have sex...

Feeling trapped could be a lot of things, it's impossible to say based off of a simple forum post. Some common reasons people feel trapped:

Didn't experience all they wanted to. If you want to do...

Sounds like you're gay but are struggling with 20 something years of socialization telling you that it's wrong or abnormal to be gay. It isn't.

Take some time to try and figure it out for...

End of Your World by Adyashanti

Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle

Awaken the Giant Within by Anthony Robbins

Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

Hahaha wow, what a huge disconnect between the way I meant that and the way you received it. First off I'll apologize if you feel like I was being arrogant or rude in any way, I definitely have no...

Start by getting a job, any job, no one is going to hire a student with no work experience. Basically you're going to have a hard time getting anywhere unless you can show prospective employers you...

I don't know about Australia, but in Canada there is free therapy and walk in counseling services available in any major city. Obviously private care is much better, but hey, it helps.

I define...

Er, I'm guessing if he didn't kiss you for three months, he didn't do anything else either? That's not much of a relationship, affectionate person or not.

Women, when dissatisfied with their...

I'd bet my house she didn't want to continue seeing you because you were too timid. I say this both because of your description of the date and you asking her to meet up "in ten days", and because...

I don't know what your health care covers in Germany, but check out subsidized therapy. When an emotional issue starts affecting your day to day life, it becomes a legitimate medical problem. The...

Man.. someone else got it exactly right: when thing aren't perfect with her boyfriend she falls back on you for an emotional state boost. She turns to you for validation, i.e. if her boyfriend is...

Girls don't friend zone guys, guys friend zone themselves by not demonstrating interest. If you don't make a move, you'll end up being the friend who is her ear and shoulder to cry on. If you make a...

Don't overanalyze things too much. If you find yourself looking at texts and trying to figure out what they mean, stop focusing so much on her. Hang out with friends, do other stuff, don't over...

I was with my first girlfriend for almost 5 years, and found out she cheated on me. At one point, I was in the vengeful phase (seems like you're there) wishing karma would take the shape of a bus and...

Well, I can see why there aren't any replies yet... touchy subject. I will be as honest as possible while being constructive:

If you admit you gained a few pounds, you've probably gained more than...

Hey,

I'm a psychology student (working towards PhD in counseling psych / private marriage counseling practice) and dating consultant. I registered here to keep in touch with common problems people...