I've been in a relaship with a man for just under a year. I love him alot, but there are a few problems.
Firstly, he is very vanilla in bed. I guess this would be ok if we had sex a lot, or if he was better with his hands/tongue, but he's not. He's quite judgemental about some of the kinkier things I am into, and I no that if we are going to be together, then I have to accept I am not going to be totally satisfied.
I do enjoy sex with him when we have it, and get really into it, but he seems to get annoyed if I get turned on when we're kissing, because he might 'just want to cuddle'.
The bigger problem is that he very rarely wants to have sex. He says he is attracted to me, and he enjoys it when it happens, but he is never in the mood. He doesnt masterbate either.
I have another problem because I know that he found an ex girlfriend prettier than me. He dumped her. He says I am 'deeper' and there is no point to compare the two relationships.
So now I guess he isn't attracted to me, or he would want to have sex with me. He never compliments me. It's strange - but I used to get a lot of compliemnts from men about how I look. And co-workers have said I have a nice body, or am pretty. This makes me feel worthless, bt he says it is not his way to give compliments.
As a man, does this just sound like he doesn't fancy me? He says he loves me, but I am not feeling it because of this.